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To be loved. To be respected. You want to be both but if you have to choose between the two which do you choose for you? Why?

Posted - October 12, 2016

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  • 8214
    Respect, thank you. 
      October 12, 2016 6:44 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Ditto. Thank you for your reply MS and Happy Sunday.
      October 16, 2016 4:43 AM MDT
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  • To be loved or respected, one must first give love and respect. The return follows automatically without your wanting it.
      October 15, 2016 10:10 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Sadly it doesn't Neelie. It SHOULD. But it doesn't necessarily follow at all. So which do you choose if you have to choose one? You neglec ed to tell me that. Thank you for your response and Happy Sunday! :)
      October 16, 2016 4:43 AM MDT
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  • Well, if I HAVE to choose, I'll take respect. Respect, in my opinion, MUST precede love. Happy day to you too, Rosie.
      October 16, 2016 10:01 AM MDT
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  • 46117
    You cannot love anything without respecting it.
      October 16, 2016 10:02 AM MDT
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  • 3375
    I fully agree.
      October 16, 2016 10:07 AM MDT
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  • 17261
    To be loved... I can't be loved without them also showing me respect... It won't be love if they don't...
      October 16, 2016 10:12 AM MDT
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