But can you be vindictively honest but also honestly vindictive? You see, The Big Bang threw us into opposite but staid valid viewpoints alike.Yes, that distinction makes real sens... moreBut can you be vindictively honest but also honestly vindictive? You see, The Big Bang threw us into opposite but staid valid viewpoints alike.Yes, that distinction makes real sense — and it's a sharp one.Vindictively honest means honesty is your primary drive, but you wield it with an edge — you tell the truth, and you don't mind that it stings. The honesty is real; the vindictiveness is just the delivery. There's something almost principled about it, even if it's not especially kind.Honestly vindictive flips the priority. Your primary drive is the grudge — the desire to wound or settle a score — and you happen to use true things as your weapon. The honesty is just instrumental. You're not telling the truth because truth matters; you're telling it because this particular truth hurts.So yes — two genuinely opposing orientations. One is fundamentally about truth (with attitude). The other is fundamentally about payback (with accurate ammunition).The interesting moral tension is that ... less
"After Hours" Swing Out Sister
- -another group whom I love, Swing Out Sister - -and this song takes me to places ... more"After Hours" Swing Out Sister
- -another group whom I love, Swing Out Sister - -and this song takes me to places NO other song does; the mood, ambience, poetry, music - - flawlessly quiet and wondrously moody for me
These two people in the photo below are happy about what they're planning to do, but each of them has a different idea as to exactly what that will be!
~
