I have never been, and never will be, totally self-sufficient. I prefer the luxuries of civilization.
Very few people are totally self-sufficient. That would require growing your own food, and providing your own shelter. What would "trip up" most people who want to be self-sufficient, is having to pay taxes ... the IRS requires actual money for that, which requires being reliant on other people for income.
Please define what you mean by “mostly to totally self-sufficient”. I agree with what Walt stated above, I don’t think that’s truly attainable; we all have to rely on others for at least some things in life. ~
I have been married since age of 20. So it was never just me on my own. Has been my husband and I for 25 yrs now.
This post was edited by my2cents at October 8, 2020 10:25 AM MDT