How can one person be an SOB to some and very loving to others? Not his/her fault? The fault/blame or credit all goes to others?

Peculiarly weird odd and kinda sad. It's there to be given but isn't. It's DOLED OUT to "the deserving".

SIGH.

Too bad how sad. Some glad some mad. All bad. A CAD.  A loving dad. Confusing. Amusing.  Accusing musing using abusing.
EYE OF BEHOLDER?