You would KNOW much more Oscar so wouldn't that make you a better person? If you know where the pitfalls are and what the result of mistakes cost you wouldn't you avoid them? I know I for sure would be a better person than I am. I can't retroactively go back and make amends for things I did/said thoughtlessly. Only after it was too late did I realize that I could have done better and should have done better but I didn't. Thank you for your reply! :)