Did you ever hear some gorgeous babe ask "do you only love me for my looks?" Or some billionaire exclaiming "do you love me for my wealth?"
My answer is OF COURSE that is part of it. That is part and parcel of your makeup. You would not be the person you are without that advantage.
SO, that leads to my answer. Hillary would NOT be what she is without Bill and vice-versa. And Michelle would not be anything without Barack. It does not make either person less than the other. It makes them who they are because the other person is part and parcel of 3/4's of all their life experiences.