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WHere do you draw the line between being a parent and an evil sociopath getting their cookies off?

What is the reason to take a person weaker than yourself and disrobe them before beating them?  Because they are not behaving in a manner to suit YOU?  What horrid thing can a child do to warrant this insipid behavior? 

WHO DOES THIS and calls themselves a responsible parent.    Who gets on a website and brags about it?  Who is not rife with shame over humiliating their own child this way? 

There is no reason whatsoever to take a child's clothes off their body to punish them.  The only reason is because it humiliates them and hurts MORE.  Pain is not a punishment fit for a child.  Pain is what is inflicted by someone who does not know how to RAISE a child properly.  Pain is something inflicted by people who are sadists.   

I am  certain this is grounds for child protective services to step in. 

Anyone who IN THIS DAY AND AGE WHEN YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER still brags about wanting to spank their kid's bare bottom needs to be in a straight-jacket for a few decades.

Posted - November 3, 2016

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  • I was just going to ask the exact same thing.
    Non-sexual? It's like reading a manual for getting your rocks off.

    Well said, Sharonna. It sickens me deeply.
      November 3, 2016 12:05 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Why don't they get these ravers off the home page already.

    The last thing I want to do is address this sickwad stuff.
    I think they should be thrown off here.   


      November 3, 2016 12:08 PM MDT
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  • I took a peek just a few minutes ago at some of that chit.   Disgusting. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 3, 2016 1:39 PM MDT
      November 3, 2016 12:17 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Ummm... that would be peek.  Not peak.  If you took a peak, it might be inferred that you were getting off on that chit.  (I am a very sick woman)
      November 3, 2016 12:20 PM MDT
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  • Doh! >_<
      November 3, 2016 12:21 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Sharon loves you and we both know that you are probably smarter than I am.  So, I am chiding you in fun.  I know you can take it. LOL
      November 3, 2016 12:26 PM MDT
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  • ;)

    I don't know that and highly doubt it.
      November 3, 2016 12:34 PM MDT
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  • Sharona. .. I agree totally work your post .. But I do have a question re very small children who are too young to reason with .. How do you stop them from self harm Fir example in a kitchen with hot things?  I'm definitely not saying beat them... But a smack  when they approach a stove for example ... I'm not a parent so I have no experience ... But I am wondering how this should be managed
      November 3, 2016 12:28 PM MDT
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  • This is apples and oranges.   There's sexual overtones.
      November 3, 2016 12:32 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Glis

    EXACTLY. 

    I am not calling this person a pedophile.  I am going to say that this is the same behavior though.  They continue to deny they are doing anything wrong, but their actions SCREAM their message.   They love to taunt.  They love to pretend they are acting normally.  They don't have a moral center.

    Again, I cannot say that this is true with these Muggers on here who get behind this activity, but if it walks like a duck and spanks kids naked like a duck.... well maybe???
      November 3, 2016 12:41 PM MDT
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  • I call bull.   When someone post a picture of a 9-12 yo girl in her panties and then people are replying how cute they look but would look better with a "red bum".  When another is phrasing his replies as " i pulled her panties rightdown..." and says they keep poImage - Pedobear.png - Borderlands Wiki - Walkthroughs, Weapons ...rn with the regular movies.  This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 3, 2016 1:45 PM MDT
      November 3, 2016 12:58 PM MDT
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  • I hear that and I am totally against it This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 3, 2016 1:38 PM MDT
      November 3, 2016 1:02 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    Children are smart.  They go to a hot stove and touch it?  They will get burned.  Sit them down and say NO NO.

    If you are a loving, consistent parent whom the child trusts and does not fear?  They want to please you.  If they do not? It is time to keep them away from such dreaded objects until they can be reasoned with and this does not take that long. 

    There are many ways to get a baby to listen and one of the ways it to keep it out of harm's way and the other is to continually repeat the lesson VERBALLY and maybe even with pictures and a story.

    If they are too young for that? Then they should be supervised all the time.  That is what a parent is SUPPOSED to do. 

    Just like preventative medicine.  An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of hitting a small person.  They can be taught.  They can be shown and we have BOOKS aplenty on how to raise a child correctly .

    Parents who hit, are lazy and frustrated and have no business BEING parents.  They need to attend parenting classes.   If any person on this site who is pro TAKING down pants and bragging about it, attended a parenting class, there would be child protective services at their door. 
      November 3, 2016 12:33 PM MDT
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  • Thanks for the answer
      November 3, 2016 1:03 PM MDT
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  • Why can't you talk to them, berate them sternly if that is what is required?
    Would you insist on taking down someone's pants to correct them if they were not a child?

      November 3, 2016 1:31 PM MDT
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  • Re the pants of curse not. .. Same for children
      November 3, 2016 2:28 PM MDT
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  • I still wouldn't smack him Oz, our inability to monitor or maintain a safe place should not be a valid reason for it.
      November 4, 2016 4:59 PM MDT
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  • I agree with you Sharonna. This should not be on the main page.  
      November 3, 2016 12:33 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    This transvestite picture person is slowly getting the message across. This has nothing to do with proper punishment and everything to do with trying to weasel this disgusting topic onto the main page.

    I think this person needs to GO.  I think this person is making a fool out of Just Asking.  I think this person gets off on talking about hitting naked butts not about disciplining a beloved offspring.
      November 3, 2016 12:37 PM MDT
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  • Or anywhere?
    Damn, there's encrypted software for this kind if thing..
      November 3, 2016 1:41 PM MDT
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  • All groups show on the main page when someone posts in them.  I personally do not like that feature.  This group is borderline at the best.  It makes me cringe when I  see their posts.  I did spank my daughter when she was little but never made her take her clothes off first. And I  never spanked her hard enough to leave a mark.  
      November 3, 2016 1:18 PM MDT
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  • 46117
    My daughter's father spanked my daughter once.  It was not hard and it made me sick.  It made him sick too.  She took us by surprise because she did something neither of us understood at the time and we were both mystified.

    I don't think he should have done this and he never did it again.  She did NOT deserve that. 

    This is not to say that you did anything wrong.  That particular scene plays in my mind and I am ashamed for how I behaved that day.  Not my daughter. 

    But a spanking is not bad when it is just a spanking that most parents do.   The once in a while "tap" on the butt is miles away from what these insaneos are announcing on here.

    It is brutality and worse cleverly disguised as normal parenting.  SO SICK.  They need to be thrown off here.  At least that whole group needs to be disbanded.  This is NOT OKAY.
      November 3, 2016 1:22 PM MDT
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  • I agree.  The spankings she did get were few and far between.  they were more of a swat than a spanking.  I mostly grounded her or something along that line.  I so wish we could block the groups. 
      November 3, 2016 1:32 PM MDT
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  • I agree with WW, but I think the picture combined to the comments to it really crossed a line.
      November 3, 2016 1:40 PM MDT
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