Is the reason some people don't play chess because they'll make just another messed up mistake?

Watching a war movie! My father watched war movies a lot. I heard he drove my mother crazy. He fought two wars! Military man! All the way. But, he turned to art as a channel. I didn't for a while in my head. Booze stopped me. I let it talk! ! I either had a moment of weakness or I overdid it. Society knows. All eyes on me. I am being watched. One time when I overdid it. My father tried to defend me by telling them this isn't Nazi Germany! Drunk! I pushed a shopping cart by a car! It wasn't anger. It was unfinished childhood emotional development manifested.
Important developmental outcomes that matter to children, parents, and society: a young adult’s capacity to engage in socially constructive actions (helping, caring, sharing with others), to curb hostile or aggressive impulses, to live according to meaningful moral values.