ever since this guy retired we've had a female mail carrier, i really like her and i like to talk to her sometimes when i see her, she likes talking to me too and shes a real friendly person, we've had her almost a yr, i dont always get to see her cause either im in school when she comes and now i have a job, so sometimes i see her on saturdays, i was just talking to her, wasnt talking about anything personal, and i wasnt stopping her from doing the mail cause she was doing it anyways, kind of multitasking, my neighbors were downstairs having a birthday party for one of my neighbors, i didnt go cause my neighbors dont seem to like me much so it wouldve been awkward, anyways, when i was talking to her they kept telling me to stop talking to her and to stop bothering her, i felt it was none of their business, i dont stop them from talking to each other so i saw no need to stop me, and besides she was an adult and if she didnt want me talking to her she wouldve told me herself, i was ticked off that my neighbors were bothering me so i was talking to her even when she was walking around delivering packages just to tick my neighbors off, anyways, one came up to me with a real angry look on her face and told me to stop bothering her so i told her to stop bothering me, i feel bad cause maybe i shouldnt have been rude, but why the constant following me around telling me not to talk to someone, i dont do it to them so why cant i have the same respect back, i didnt go to the party cause i felt uncomfortable around my neighbors and also felt bad that when my own birthday came around i sat in my apt all day without anyone stopping by to say hi or nothing and yes they knew about it cause they advertise people's birthdays, felt like why do people throw one a party while another person gets totally ignored, so why did they bother me, were they jealous?