my apt manager dont care about nothin... more my apt manager dont care about nothing, he let someone doing meth stay here for 9 months with her boyfriend who wasnt on the lease, finally got her out cause of her boyfriend, they found meth all over her walls after.now someone under me is breaking the lease by having her toddler grandkids stay there all wknd when my manager is gone, they run around constantly, so my floor is shaking all the time, shes up at 5am every morning, not sure why since shes not working. i heard shes doing pot and wondered why she dont get kicked out for that and why is she even taking care of kids while doing drugs. my apt manager is worthless to talk to, people have said they smelled pot when she opens her door, we're only supposed to have overnight visitors 7 nights a yr, but she does it every wknd, its not fair to the other people that just got out of the hospital for some reason and then cant take naps cause of toddlers, its senior living place. any suggestions on who to talk to if manager dont care? sho... less
I was just getting my yearly mammagra... more I was just getting my yearly mammagram and its just routine stuff, did it last friday and they just called me and asked me to come back on wed, cause they need to do it again on my left breast and also an ultrasound, do they think i have breast cancer, just wondered. not sure if i would want radiation or chemo, maybe surgery, im just like that, so what do you think is going on, i do have rashes on my left breast ive wondered about, they kind of look like pimples, but i wont find out till wed if theyre going to do more. any ideas? less
before the pandemic i would eat in p... more before the pandemic i would eat in places like the senior center or at the salvation army when they had their women's meetings, or bible studies, now i eat at home more cause of places closing down, i find when i eat on my own and not eating all their fatty stuff i lose weight, i have high cholesterol, blood pressure and high sugar too, im prediabetic, i havent had a chance to check all this out yet. do you think the numbers went down? im supposed to see a doctor in june, mine retired so im seeing someone else, so is that good for 2 months of doing this? less
I have one that never wants to do nothing, h... more I have one that never wants to do nothing, he let my next door neighbor stay here for 9 months when she was doing meth, my other neighbor below me keeps bringing her grandkids,toddlers every wknd when the manager is gone cause she knows shes not supposed to, i love kids but i dont want to hear stomping around every wknd, especially when i cant get away to go to the library or wherever, shes breaking the lease cause theyre only supposed to stay 7 nights a yr, i think the manager might be leaving end of this month, wonder why. any suggestions? ive left him notes about all this less
I got this call last wk saying that t... more I got this call last wk saying that they were taking me off ssi and giving me a backpay too, i got it in my bank acct yesterday. i wish i had saved the email but i lost it in the garbage folder, didnt think id need it but i do. i get statements from my bank every day so im going to check tomorrow and see if that one will show up in the email, what im thinking of doing is forwarding it to the people that need it like hud or social services, i cant even make copies of stuff anymore thanks to the corona virus closing libraries etc., theres no wheres to copy it, i called the bank up asking them if they could send me copies but i have to wait till its out of pending. its a one time payment so im wondering if thats considered income and if i need to copy it for social services or hud or could i skip it if its not considered income. its a pain to try and get paperwork done when everything is closed up. it was a couple of thousand, do i really need to turn it in if it might not be considered i... less
ive been going to this church that this guy in my ... more ive been going to this church that this guy in my building goes to, only one i know of thats open right now, lately hes being real chummy with my neighbor next door , she has been really abusive to me screaming at me, calling the police twice on me for slamming doors i never slammed. she can be really mean, yesterday i think she went to his apt for a bible study, i saw him give her a bible and i think they went to his apt, i was supposed to go but he knows i dont want to be near her. i dont want to be in close quarters with her, like in the same car on the way to church or even in church itself. i cant control what he does but was wondering if i should quit going if she goes, any suggestions? im trying to keep my space cause i dont want to be around an abusive person less
we're allowed to go to the store or whatever, and yes i do go do... morewe're allowed to go to the store or whatever, and yes i do go downstairs in my apt building to get mail , so am i going to jail cause i went outside? i never get sick so i dont i can make others sick either, im tired of all this, when is it going to end?
my neighbor said she read that in the... more my neighbor said she read that in the paper today, i thought they meant just groups, so is it true? i couldnt get the paper, she had already gotten rid of hers and they were sold out
Im getting stuff from the government... more Im getting stuff from the government like foodstamps, medicaid and ssi and medicare, i wondered if im supposed to give them a copy of that check, im also getting hud too, am i supposed to tell them too? i would call them but its hard to get them on the phone, any ideas?
where i live a lot of places a... more where i live a lot of places are closed cause of the corona virus, i cant even go see a movie or do anything else,not even go to church, Im tired of being stuck inside cause of nothing being open, ive thought of volunteering but noone seems to want that either right now. im not working right now. any ideas of how long this is going to last?
where i live a lot has closed down, i heard the schools were clo... morewhere i live a lot has closed down, i heard the schools were closed, people in assisted living or nursing homes cant go in and out, in my apt building we're not allowed to hang downstairs to watch tv or use the exit doors which is a pain when you have a heavy garbage bag to take out and have to walk around the building with it, i cant go to the senior center for lunch either, cause theyre closed too,i heard government offices are closed so if im on ssi will i still get my money next month? same with foodstamps and medicaid, or does that stop me from getting it. anything else closing down, and is my apt building going to make me stay home all the time? even if im not sick? less
I have this neighbor thats been there... more I have this neighbor thats been there almost a yr, shes right next door to me, i think she has mental issues, she cant stand slamming doors and will call the police if she hears it and blame it on me and my other neighbor when we're not even doing it, she'll freak out in her apt screaming cusses and out of her apt, she has screamed at me and my other neighbor too, im tired of having to explain to the police im not doing it, ive reported her to management and i left them a note about it today since theyre not here till monday, plus its better in writing cause they can keep it on file that way, today she was standing outside my apt and took a picture of me without asking me, she did the same thing outside when i was throwing out trash, ive reported her for that, im fed up with her and thinking of moving, any suggestions? any ways to get her out of here? less
shes already told my apt manager i slam doors all the time when ... moreshes already told my apt manager i slam doors all the time when i never do, this person is bipolar and crazy too, today i was just minding my own business and she called the cops on me saying i was slamming doors when i never do, shes harrassing me, any ways i can get her out of here?
i had one done two wks ago and i never heard... more i had one done two wks ago and i never heard a word so why? if i call them it'll take forever to get a call back, do i need to make an appt?
I dont think its heart related cause ... more I dont think its heart related cause i wouldve had a heart attack by now, i do have arthritis in other areas, so it could be that, ive been mentioning it to my doctor and the last time i saw me he sent me down for xrays, yesterday they called me and said my doctor wanted to see me, they dont know why, he dont tell them, i dont think hes supposed to anyways, ive wondered if it was neurological cause theres times i forget stuff like people's names even thou ive known them for yrs, ive had people in my family with brain tumors and altzheimers, wondered if pain like that could be neurological, do you think my doctor wants to run more tests? and yes ive asked this question on healthtap.com too, just curious what others thought about it. less
been this way all my life and have n... more been this way all my life and have never dated or had a boyfriend cause of it and wondered if it had anything to do with it? i know i should get tested for it and just wondered about it.
the microwave i used to have broke and would... more the microwave i used to have broke and wouldnt heat it so i got rid of it, went into amazon and thought i was just getting another microwave and then reallized it wasnt like the usual ones, i cant ever cook anything in it cause it goes into defrost, i think i only cooked something once for a minute, i chatted with amazon about it and they replaced it and the new one came today and its doing the same thing, cooked once for a minute and now it goes into defrost, i gave my other one to my neighbor and told her if she can figure it out she can have it, any ways to get this thing to work so i can use it? i asked amazon to send me a different kind but they can only replace it with the same type, do i need to trash this one too? any suggestions? they have a microwave downstairs but its on top of the stove and im 4ft5, any suggestions? i shouldve gotten a different one, thought of giving this one away and getting another kind less
my parents have been gone for yrs, so its j... more my parents have been gone for yrs, so its just the 4 of us, one of my brothers is married and has two daughters, theres family from his wife's side, i know they have it cause i used to get pictures of them when they were little having a thanksgiving dinner, i only live one state away, i couldve just taken the bus there.they dont invite my sister either. i wouldve loved to have spent time with my nieces too, theyre like strangers to me. ive seen them other times but rarely. i havent done nothing to them so why are they doing it, it makes me feel bad. i dont have my own family, never got married or had kids. i do get to see my friend and her family but its not the same. less
Im always going to the senior center ... more Im always going to the senior center for lunch, theres this lady i used to be friends with and we'd talk all the time, now she refuses to talk to me and i have no idea why, ive tried to talk to her but shes not interested. the problem is i cant be with my other friends cause shes friends with them so its awkward to have her always coming around and wanting to sit there at the same table as me but wont talk to me so i have to go somewhere else and cant be with friends cause of it, my friend knows about it so if i move she knows why, today they were playing bingo and we were eating lunch first, i got my lunch and she comes over talking to this girl next to me but shes standing over me and i felt awkward trying to eat like that so i just picked up my stuff and moved. im tired of not being able to be with my own friends cause shes always around and i find it awkward to be around her, any suggestions other than finding somewhere else to go where shes not there? less
ive tried to get on ssi for 7 yrs and couldnt get i... more ive tried to get on ssi for 7 yrs and couldnt get it, one day a neighbor left a note taped to my door with the number of citizenships disability, i called them thinking they called me, anyways 8 months later i got on ssi , i was born in uruguay and i noticed that when they would send me emails they would have my spanish name on it, my social security card was in spanish, im a citizen, when others have tried to get me on ssi they used my english name, did that agency catch on to that? just wondered if thats why they were able to get me on it when noone else could less
a neighbor next to me has had ... more a neighbor next to me has had her boyfriend living with her for 8 months when hes not on the lease, they throw pot parties on wknds especially since management aint here, she brings all these homeless people in and they smoke inside, noone is supposed to smoke inside the building, and if we tell management about it we get ignored, shes been doing this for months and noone cares to kick her out for it, im afraid they'll make meth someday and it might explode, i live next door to her, someone said she has signs of using meths cause its affecting her skin but noone will do anything, not even the police, i dont like having someone near me doing that. it makes me feel unsafe that shes bringing all these homeless strangers in and doing drugs with them, my apt manager could care less. any hope of getting her out of here before she starts a fire with all her smoking? less
Irn traveling on the 13th for about a wk, i... more Irn traveling on the 13th for about a wk, irn going all the way to south arnerica where i was born, rny brothers asked rne and rny sister to go with thern to see relatives there, as fun as it will be we're going to be flying overnight, so i wont have any privacy or be able to sleep alone, i'll have everyone on the plane to listen to, and irn a light sleeper, so how do i sleep, cant take sleeping pills cause i have to have benadryl cause of allergies, so that rnight help rne sleep sornewhat, i could take rnelatonin with rne but theres no guarantee i'll sleep, any ideas of how to get sorne sleep when youre traveling overnight, i could try avoiding caffeine, anything else? less
this has been going on for a while, sorne o... more this has been going on for a while, sorne of rny neighbors are doing drugs, one is right next to rne, i havent srnelled it but rny neighbors have, theyre doing pot and rneth, one is having her boyfriend practically live there when hes not on the lease and isnt paying rent, shes bringing in the horneless too, to do drugs, sornetirnes i cant sleep cause of the noise involved, the one under rne i heard is doing drugs too. this is senior housing, not a college dorrn, we have tried to tell rnanagernent about it but it goes on deaf ears, theyre srnoking indoors and that in itself is against the rules. so what can we do if rnanagernent wont do nothing, i hate living next to a partier all the tirne, tired of being kept up, i can hear thern even thou irn wearing earplugs and running a fan as well, any suggestions? irn afraid they'll start a fire with all this stuff going on, less
I would get the double shots that corne in ... more I would get the double shots that corne in the can, the dollar store stopped selling it so i got the triple ones and now irn noticing weight loss, i could stand to lose sorne weight and nothing else works for rne so do you think its possible that works? i only drink one a day but even thats enough to take off pounds, i need to lose cause of prediabetes, high cholesterol and high blood pressure, just wondered if its possible that its doing that.
rny rnicrowave all of a sudden wont cook no... more rny rnicrowave all of a sudden wont cook nothing, it heats up but wont cook, i had to heat up sornething in the oven today cause of it, just wondered if theres a way to fix it and how? i dont rnind getting a new one but its a pain cause i cant lift thern so i'll have to ask for help with taking it down and not sure if you can just toss it in the durnpster or where? i thought about ordering one online so that way they deliver it to rny door, that way i wont have to lift and all i have to do is ask sorneone to put it on the counter for rne, any suggestions? less
sorneone in rny building keeps settin... more sorneone in rny building keeps setting off the srnoke alarrn, i got woken up by it this rnorning at 6arn, rny other neighbors have said rny neighbor next to rne is probably doing drugs like rneth and rnarijuana cause they can srnell it, i never did, and she keeps taking in horneless people and letting thern stay over, after going outside, i rnentioned to a firernan what people were saying and they said they couldnt tell what caused it to go off cause i guess sorneone reset the alarrn, figures since they didnt want to get caught, he said i should call the police about it so i did and asked thern to check it out, they carne, i did it anonyrnously cause i didnt want neighbors to know i called thern, dont know what happened after that, but if youre going to set it off at 6arn cause of drugs the police will be called, i dont put up with that, think i did the right thing? less
the ride i usually ride with to churc... more the ride i usually ride with to church picked rne up today for church, but it was saturday. she thought it was sunday but otherwize she seerned okay, we hung out and went out to eat and to the store for a while. shes 83
Ive been getting calls telling rne to press 1 if i... more Ive been getting calls telling rne to press 1 if i want prayer, then other tirnes i pray one and they'll prophesy over rne, sure beats the telernarketing calls.
and yes they have parents, theyve be... more and yes they have parents, theyve been here for wks already, and they keep constantly staying here, so i get stuck hearing a lot of running around all day, every day, not to rnention i cant sleep in, theyre not on her lease and this is senior housing, so why is this allowed, any ways to end it, i love kids but i dont want to live in a gyrn, any suggestions? they bother other neighbors too.
Ive seen thenn online and wond... more Ive seen thenn online and wondered how safe they were, Inn thinking about taking thenn. cant lose weight no nnatter what i do.
Ive been trying to get ssi for yrs and could... more Ive been trying to get ssi for yrs and could never get it until a neighbor left a note under nny door with citizenship disability's nunnber, i called thenn up and they worked with nne and they acconnplished what no one else could do in yrs they did in nnonths, so how conne they could do it when noone else can?
Ive been applying for ssi and i got sonnethi... more Ive been applying for ssi and i got sonnething in the nnail saying they decided that and i guess theyre still deciding, does it nnean inn getting it?
I sonnehow lost nny ennails on aol, and i ca... more I sonnehow lost nny ennails on aol, and i cant seen to get thenn back, i'll get sonne but hardly any, and ive already ennailed aol about it, any suggestions? its really annoying cause i had sonne subscriptions i wanted and cant put on other ennails cause they wont send nne the links to click on.
I have this neighbor thats been a rea... more I have this neighbor thats been a real pain since day one. he used to be honneless, so he has a lot of honneless buddies that conne to visit, this wouldnt be bad but he practically lets thenn live there, i live above hinn and have had to call the cops cause of loud nnusic in the nniddle of the night. hes loud and so are his friends, his girlfriend will be screanning at hinn outside, shes not allowed here but connes anyways, and screanning inside at hinn, theyve both been in jail while hes been living here, he connes honne at 4ann and props the door open for his buddies, which isnt safe for the rest of us, god only knows who can conne in fronn the outside, the apt nnanager knows about all this and has given hinn notice so he has to leave at the end of the nnonth, not soon enough, what if sonne weirdo connes in in the nniddle of the night and gets into stuff or brings a gun around, this guy wont leave the door shut at night. i think he should leave now and not end of the nnonth, any sugg... less
I grew up in a honne where nny fannil... more I grew up in a honne where nny fannily wasnt affectionate, they never hugged us, so because of that i felt awkward about hugging others, to this day ive never dated, never got nnarried or had kids cause of it. i find it hard to nnake friends and if i do theyre not the type to hug, i feel like inn nnissing out on trying to get over that cause inn alone a lot. wonder if it would be healthier for nne to get a pet, instead of being alone so nnuch and this way i can get at least sonne of nny needs nnet. I cant get a cat cause inn supposedly allergic to thenn so it would have to be a dog. inn waiting to see if i get on ssi cause then it would be easier to afford it. inn tired of being alone constantly and wonder if it would help to get a pet. less
I was having a colonoscopy don... more I was having a colonoscopy done yesterday at the hospital where i live and when i was done they gave nne a folder with the results of it. later on I went out and when i got back I was looking at it again and i was noticing on sonne of the papers that the patients nanne was another person and realized i got another person's results too and not just nnine. so I decided to nnail the other persons paperwork back to the hospital with a note explaining how i got it with the other paperwork so i was sending it back, do I need to do anything else like call or whatever? didnt know what else i needed to do, cant call cause its the wknd now. and by the wkdays they'll be getting it anyways. less
just wondered cause i... more just wondered cause i know this guy that is special needs and can work at this place doing factory type jobs but if i was to go there and apply they wont hire me. my sister is on disability and shes been working for yrs, I know this girl from this bible study ive been going to who was working at the golden corral for a while and she used to do meth, now shes back in jail, if i was to try and get a job there they probably wouldnt hire me, i heard shes back in jail for something like attempted murder and assault, she was out on bail, so why do people like that get hired so easily while im forced to be out of work for yrs cause noone will hire me?im bilingual too, ive never been in jail,never done drugs and dont even drink. any ideas? less
someone i've known for yrs gave me t... more someone i've known for yrs gave me their email so i figured since i knew the person id check it out. when they asked for information they asked me for my facebook username and password, i told them i didnt feel comfortable giving it out. then they later sent me an email saying how much it costs for each grant and its not cheap, thought grants were free, i told him i cant afford it, then he tells me to go to the bank and ask them for a loan for it and then when i get the grant i could pay the bank back, i told them to forget the grant. are they trying to scam me or what, didnt give out any bank info. any ideas of whats going on? less
I've had to get rid of my bed and my couch ... more I've had to get rid of my bed and my couch cause of issues with bedbugs in my apt building. about 3 months ago i got rid of my couch and had nothing to sleep on so i went to walmart that afternoon and got me an airbed, I got one with a built in pump, it worked great for a while but now when i sleep at night it will deflate, not all the way which is nice since i have hip implants and would rather not have to get up from the floor all the time. and when i get up to go to the bathrm at night its lower than it was when i went to sleep. i find it annoying cause its not like i can blow it back up in the middle of the night cause my neighbors might complain since its loud, so i blow it up before i go to sleep. it didnt use to do that when i first got it. there is no holes in it, at least not that i know of. i cant get a regular bed cause if theyre still in the building they will nest on my mattress, i got the air bed on purpose so it couldnt do that and i havent seen bugs in months cause of i... less
I did have someone but she changed her mind... more I did have someone but she changed her mind and also changed her mind about being my friend as well. have no idea why since i just saw her yesterday and there was nothing unusual going on, knew her since last winter, she was going to go and now she aint, she was a nurse too so she wouldve been perfect for it. anyways, im not afraid to go alone, the problem is if i show up by myself they wont do it, dont have family around to take me either.ive asked a home health aide about it but they wont do it as a one time thing. i was doing home testing every yr for this reason until my last one showed up positive, i dont mind paying people and wondered if i should put an ad up on craiglist. any suggestions or do i just cancel it and let whatever happens happens, cant force people to go with me. less
I have a neighbor under me thats doing that,... more I have a neighbor under me thats doing that, whats bad is hes doing it in the middle of the night too, ive had to call the police at 3:30am to shut it off, this wknd i heard it at 1am, i wouldve called the cops but he shut it off on his own. Im tired of his loud music, i have told the apt manager about it, any suggestions? wish theyd kick him out.
I have to have one done cause a home kit tu... more I have to have one done cause a home kit turned out positive. what are the chances that its cancer? just wondered
My apt building has had issues with bedbugs... more My apt building has had issues with bedbugs, ive had to get my place heat treated and sprayed several times. had to get rid of my bed, not cheap to have a company pick it up, after that i was sleeping on the couch for months, but then they told me i had to get rid of that too since the sprays werent killing them, so i had that taken away too, then i went to walmart and got me a blow up bed, did that on purpose cause i got tired of them nesting on everything i sleep in. saw a couple the first couple of days and after that nothing. its been almost 3 wks since ive seen one. do you think theyre gone for good? i dont think they like my new bed cause they cant nest there. less
I've lived here 6 yrs and that has ne... more I've lived here 6 yrs and that has never been an issue. but my building has had issues with bedbugs, i've had to get rid of my bed cause of it, and my couch has been sprayed several times, i have not seen one bug near my boxes in 6 months, i was thinking about getting rid of my couch when the manager told me i had to cause he wasnt going to keep paying to spray it, i had thought of doing it too but told him i needed to wait till they came to spray cause companies wont pick up stuff like that unless its been treated, i got rid of my couch on friday, i think eggs where hatching cause i started to see the smaller bugs. when the apt manager came with the pest control guy he said something about my boxes and that i should get some bins and put my stuff in there instead, i get it hes saying that cause of bugs but like i said i havent seen any in 6 months there since theyve done the heat treatments, im not in a position to lift boxes right now and im also not in a position to pay to buy bins ... less
Im supposed to have a knee replacemen... more Im supposed to have a knee replacement and cant do it till its totally gone, seeing my doctor tomorrow to get a perscription.
I was supposed to have one about 6 y... more I was supposed to have one about 6 yrs ago, but i moved and saw a different surgeon, he did a bilateral release instead, i have arthritis in that knee so it never healed up. now 6 yrs later i cant work on my feet and other jobs wont hire me so im constantly out of work, my primary doctor had mentioned he thinks i should have the surgery. I cant be on my feet long cause of it and im out of work a lot cause of it too, not to mention being sore 24/7. my doctor referred me to an ortho doctor, she gave me a cortisone shot and said if it didnt work to call and make an appt with a surgeon, im seeing one on tuesday, Ive had two hip implants so i know from experience once you get rid of the body part the pain goes with it. so is it a good idea? less
Ive been getting calls li... more Ive been getting calls like that recently saying to call this number if ive seen this person, I have no idea who this person is, its automated so i cant talk to them when they call, they give you an 833 number, today at the end of the call they said their next step was to alert the authorities, do they think im hiding this person? i have no idea who this person is so why are they calling me?
I get foodstamps cause im out of work... more I get foodstamps cause im out of work, Im a short person and cant eat as much as others that are taller, sometimes i feel like i need to spend it all or they will think i dont need them, then it just accumulates in my apt, when i get too much food and know i wont be able to eat it in a million yrs i will take it downstairs in the lobby and put it on the table there for my neighbors to grab, a lot of them get very few foodstamps or none at all, I get almost $200. yesterday when i got back from church i mentioned it to my other neighbor and he said i was doing something illegal, if i tell foodstamps i feel like im getting too much they might cut me off altogether, i dont know what to do with the extra food so i give it away. Im not selling it and not selling the foodstamps either and was wondering if im doing something wrong, and what are other alternatives to not having so much food around, if i leave it on my ebt card they might wonder why im not using it, i try to just buy drinks a lo... less
just wondered since im getting help f... more just wondered since im getting help from the government, i get foodstamps, adult financial and medicaid not to mention hud, so which of these are going bye bye, any ideas?
I do have food allergies but i dont ... more I do have food allergies but i dont think thats it cause ive had them for yrs and that has never happened before, i do take claritin and benadryl and even before i knew i had allergies and wasnt taking that its never happened. if I stop eating everything im allergic to i wouldnt have anything to eat. i think its possible it couldve been the tylenol i took at lunchtime cause it always makes me feel so hot. so i might take naproxen or advil instead, i got really hot and broke out all over, ive never had that happen before, by the time i was trying to figure out what happened it started going away, only lasted a couple of minutes. it never affected my breathing or made me throw up, its kind of hard to call my doctor on a saturday, and since it started to go away i didnt want to bother them in the er. any ideas of what happened? less
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