my fan was acting weird, it would make a really loud noise when i turned it on and it got to the point where it would take a half hour to get it to turn on.   i didnt know if it was the motor or not, i cant go without ...  more       my fan was acting weird, it would make a really loud noise when i turned it on and it got to the point where it would take a half hour to get it to turn on.   i didnt know if it was the motor or not, i cant go without one cause i use it for white noise so i dont hear my neighbors when im sleeping, i tried to get another one at the dollar store near me and took my grocery cart and was going to wheel one back but they werent selling them. i dont have a car so i just went on amazon and ordered another one and ups dropped it off today. i trashed my other one, do you think it couldve started a fire acting like that, ive had it for yrs so i think the motor was wearing out, any ideas?  less

        my sister just died and my brothers dont want to fly down cause of covid and i dont want to go by myself , do they even do funerals anymore? i dont even know when theyre burying her. cant find out anything cause she lived in th...  more        my sister just died and my brothers dont want to fly down cause of covid and i dont want to go by myself , do they even do funerals anymore? i dont even know when theyre burying her. cant find out anything cause she lived in this jewish place and i cant get a hold of anyone to ask anything, im afraid if i want they might say theres a limit on how many people can go there. any idea on how that works there? she lived in brooklyn  

       I didnt get to see the person that delivered it cause my apt manager gave it to me, sometimes newsletters will post my birthday and this one this and the card was from massachusetts, so how did the card manage to be stamped like...  more       I didnt get to see the person that delivered it cause my apt manager gave it to me, sometimes newsletters will post my birthday and this one this and the card was from massachusetts, so how did the card manage to be stamped like the post office stamped it but it didnt go to my mailbox and how did they mail a small cake from safeway? i wouldve thought the card at least wouldve gone to my mailbox, so how did the person get my mail and i dont think a maillady would have time to go to safeway, so how did they do it? i did write her back but its just weird that i didnt get it in the mail like i was supposed to.  less

        Its not cause of anyone being sick, im talking about people's paranoia, i cant go to the senior center down the street for months now cause of it and i miss eating lunch with my friends, yesterday was my birthday and i had to s...  more        Its not cause of anyone being sick, im talking about people's paranoia, i cant go to the senior center down the street for months now cause of it and i miss eating lunch with my friends, yesterday was my birthday and i had to spend it all alone cause my friend is paranoid im going to give her some disease that i dont even have, i never get sick and i resent not being able to be with people cause others are paranoid about it, needless to say i got stuck alone and it was one of those milestone birhdays too. they were also working in the apt next to me and i didnt want to hear banging all day on my birthday so i took the bus to the mall and ate out and saw a movie, the movie theatre itself has been closed for months and opened up right on my birthday, maybe god was trying to help me out there, i thought the timing was weird, the movie was a good one too. so how can i cope with this kind of stuff happening, i dont have family around and it wasnt fair to me to be forced to be alone cause o...    less

      Ive had them for months and did mention it to a doctor but they dont seem to think anything of it, im seeing a new one cause mine retired so i might mention it to her in sept, someone had told me they were skin tags but today someone ...  more      Ive had them for months and did mention it to a doctor but they dont seem to think anything of it, im seeing a new one cause mine retired so i might mention it to her in sept, someone had told me they were skin tags but today someone said they look more like lumps, ive gotten headaches a lot, and sometimes i tend to forget stuff like people ive known for yrs and i wonder what their names are or if i see them im trying to think of when ive seen them before, its just weird the way i forget people's names or who they are even though ive known them for yrs. ive wondered about brain tumors since ive had an aunt that died of one or altzheimers but because of the lumps i think it could be more of a tumor going on. im seeing my doctor sometime in sept, i might talk to her about it then. any ideas of whats going on?  less

     Im only 4ft5 and ive noticed where i live noone ever asks me over for anything, not even a home bible study, they dont invite me over for dinner, never want to spend the day with me, nothing, even my neighbors , like one when he needs ...  more     Im only 4ft5 and ive noticed where i live noone ever asks me over for anything, not even a home bible study, they dont invite me over for dinner, never want to spend the day with me, nothing, even my neighbors , like one when he needs someone to watch his dog will ask my other neighbor but never me, i know how to do a good job taking care of one. do people see short people like theyre not old enough to hang out with? just wondered what others thought  

      my neighbor was doing drugs and she finally got kicked out, now theyve been putting plastic on the walls, guess they found meth on the walls, ive never done drugs myself but i wondered if my bldg could get shut down cause of it. any ideas?

     I have two neighbors like this, my one neighbor right under me always brings her grandkids over every wknd and my whole floor shakes all wknd and i hear a lot of stomping around, i got lucky this wknd cause theyre not here, then shes u...  more     I have two neighbors like this, my one neighbor right under me always brings her grandkids over every wknd and my whole floor shakes all wknd and i hear a lot of stomping around, i got lucky this wknd cause theyre not here, then shes up at 4 or 5 am which is her business but she'll crank up her music and stomp around herself and it shakes my bed and she makes a lot of noise, i heard this tuesday shes going to stay with her grandkids for 3 months, have thought of calling the police on her but im afraid she'll figure out its me so im waiting to see if she'll leave.
     another one goes dumpster diving, he does this everyday, hes about 90, ive heard hes got dementia , his girlfriend who lives with him makes him throw it back in there, with covid going on the last thing we need is garbage, it brings bugs to the building too, ive found some in my apt, his daughter wont put him in assisted living, im wondering why they let him run around like that by himself with dementia going on t...    less