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Difficult to speak of 'correct' here; as so often, it's a matter... moreDifficult to speak of 'correct' here; as so often, it's a matter of taste."Were" would in this case express the subjunctive mood (more clearly conveyed in Romance languages, e.g. Spanish), which entails such nuances as emotion, hypothesis, or incertitude. If we were to assume that the writer knew what they were doing, their choice of "was" may value directness and conviction over discretion and politeness.Technically it is correct though generally ill-advised (so I do agree with Welby and you); I don't care much provided I be convinced that the other know (more subjunctives there) the distinction. less
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I once guessed wrong, and that's when my nose gained the ability... moreI once guessed wrong, and that's when my nose gained the ability. Not just her age; with a proper sample I can tell you how many steps lead out of her home and what good she'd be in a catfight.
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I need to get her scent or I won't trust that she... moreI need to get her scent or I won't trust that she is in fact a woman. It also allows me to gauge her true age (the only way to know without resorting to pickpocketing) and hormonal levels. Deodorant confuses me like when a dog goes around a newcomer in the park only to find another head and no butt. DEODORANT IS ANIMAL ABUSE.
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Don't know about health concerns, though I'm keeping it simple a... moreDon't know about health concerns, though I'm keeping it simple anyhow. For me the main reason is I find it ridiculous how people exaggerate a little bit of body odor; I'm generally sensitive to smells yet I'd rather sense some light sweating than chemicals that can make me go into a coughing fit. Plus I like it just fine when such individuals keep their distance from me.
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Agreed, yet my view on talent is precisely that it's more impres... moreAgreed, yet my view on talent is precisely that it's more impressive going against the odds. That's what fascinated me about James this post-season: no-one was giving the Cavs a real chance, and still he kept putting in those performances. To me that's worth more than a title; it's easy to be the best when everyone around you gives you such a huge advantage. This may be an exaggerated analogy, but I wouldn't be celebrating if I knocked out someone a foot smaller than I. Happy Saturday, Rosie!
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Put that way it sounds like something of a conspiracy, and I don... morePut that way it sounds like something of a conspiracy, and I don't think I can believe in that. I'm relatively opposed to most mainstream "female empowerment" only because it generally seems to do the opposite.I really wouldn't say that in the past dependence has worked fine, though. Just looking at domestic abuse, women must to some extent protect themselves from men too. Cooperation is indeed preferable--no discussion there.
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I don't much like saying what women--or men, for that matter--sh... moreI don't much like saying what women--or men, for that matter--should or shouldn't do/feel, or what 'feminine' ought to entail. My maternal grandmother (never really knew the other) was an admirable parent who practically ran an entire farm by herself to raise three children under very trying circumstances, losing one newborn and dealing with an alcoholic husband to whom she was engaged right as she became an adult. It all took a lot of physical strength too, but I wouldn't see anything wrong with that being a paradigm of femininity.The 'buzz' of which we speak I relate principally to proactivity; hormones or what we call them or how we categorize them are secondary: my interest lies in how positive and constructive a person can be, so if exercise helps with that then all the better.I can admit that there is something appealing in being able to offer a shoulder to someone when they ask for it; specifically in being a man who offers a woman stability, reliability, a sanctuary. That doesn't mean her independence is... less
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That's what I'm talking about too, though. When a woman shows su... moreThat's what I'm talking about too, though. When a woman shows such physical strength it may also suggest the emotional strength required to develop the former--all the more so if it goes against standard conceptions of what 'femininity' should be; that is to say, when they are capable of going against the grain in their pursuit of what makes them feel better, more developed.If you work out, don't you ever feel positively closer to the world in its fundamental senses, more stimulated to tackle (personal) issues, and therefore simultaneously freer to be considerate of others? These are all qualities I esteem.As someone who would like to lead a demanding life in the Bosnian countryside, I for one do find some physical strength in potential partners appealing. less
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The GSW deserve it, what with the quality they have, but that's ... moreThe GSW deserve it, what with the quality they have, but that's precisely why I can't root for them. They're just such big dogs--already were a great team before the fantastic Kevin Durant joined them--that it upsets the balance; plus as time goes by players such as Curry appear to grow more arrogant. LeBron James truly impressed me all over again with his performances at the age of 33, with his injuries and all. I'm hoping the Cavs can come back stronger.
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Men may generally have the advantage, biologically, but that doe... moreMen may generally have the advantage, biologically, but that doesn't mean a woman can't be stronger, faster, more enduring than a man. Anyhow, I don't think any such superiority is the objective at all; I exercise because the discipline, development, concentration (or distraction, depending on how you look at it), health benefits, physical reconnection etc. do me well, and don't see why it should be different for others.I'm more likely to be attracted to a woman who is physically capable (long as she isn't aggressive about it, of course, but that goes for everyone), and who therefore shows some psychological traits that I find preferable too (dedication, self-reliance, appreciation of physical work). It seems to me, Gypsyking, if you don't mind me saying so, that you're concerned with the shifts of traditional values, but then I'd say that what I've written here is about as old-school as can be: wouldn't a lion want to be with the fittest lioness to support the strength of their offspring? less
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Hehe, today's discoveries sure are more distant conceptually as ... moreHehe, today's discoveries sure are more distant conceptually as well; tougher to get a feel for. Sometimes I imagine what it may have been like to come across, say, a whale, condor, elephant or panther for those who had never heard of them before.We'll have something to brag about as soon as the aliens contact us, though.
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There are other sources for B12 too, though, I believe. Kefir al... moreThere are other sources for B12 too, though, I believe. Kefir alone does the trick for me (I'm vegetarian and don't take any supplements whatsoever), but as it's a type of yoghurt I can't suggest it for vegans. Some mushrooms can apparently help.
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Sometimes I kill them accidentally, but always go for the catch ... moreSometimes I kill them accidentally, but always go for the catch and release--no exception, from fruit flies to wasps.
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You tell me:Heavens, I love my PlayStation.
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That's what the people say; so, no, they are not. And those whom... moreThat's what the people say; so, no, they are not. And those whom I know add some culture where it's difficult to do so.
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Don't think so, but I fell up the stairs once. Carryin... moreDon't think so, but I fell up the stairs once. Carrying a laptop, I took a leap forward to keep it and myself intact.
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'Morrow' is archaic as an adverb ('tomorrow'), but it's the best... more'Morrow' is archaic as an adverb ('tomorrow'), but it's the best I can provide right now without diving into adverb/adjective polemics (e.g. 'deep').
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Haha, or 'cackle!'
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Good one! I adore Ella Fitzgerald, and you can hear her laughing... moreGood one! I adore Ella Fitzgerald, and you can hear her laughing at herself a bit here along with Duke Ellington and the gang.Superbly 'swingful' song, Ella's scatting filled with delights, and not a bad point to say that what makes life live is energy.
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Man, should there be a survey questioning "mass expulsion, slave... moreMan, should there be a survey questioning "mass expulsion, slavery, or sending your people to kill and die in a foreign country: which is prettier?" I don't know if I'd even tick a box if I knew what to answer.
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I'm sure it varies quite greatly; that sounds like a good approa... moreI'm sure it varies quite greatly; that sounds like a good approach, and nice of you to do it. In other countries I believe it's necessary to regularly reaffirm the will to donate.
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Seems like a proper thing to do, though it's apparently a bureau... moreSeems like a proper thing to do, though it's apparently a bureaucratic hassle. Don't get why administrations couldn't make such donation the standard, that--instead of the people trying to help--everyone who would not want it be the ones to go through that paperwork repeatedly.
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Hehe, difficult to answer in and of itself. Suppose the decisive... moreHehe, difficult to answer in and of itself. Suppose the decisive factor is just how vocally either would be expressed.Or perhaps stupidity must always lead to greater ignorance while the reverse is not true; ignorance can be remedied (at least to some extent), so to see it nonetheless persist is the more irksome.
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Haha, that is a valid point. Actors usually shouldn't generate t... moreHaha, that is a valid point. Actors usually shouldn't generate the impression that they're trying to prove themselves, if that's what bothered you. You're welcome, Welby!
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Didn't watch it until the end. Can understand why others do like... moreDidn't watch it until the end. Can understand why others do like it, but to me it's only one of those sentimental movies focused on eliciting some emotions, without (aesthetic) significance. The most popular works tend to be that: formally filled with cliches but just about fresh enough to appeal greatly to a broad audience.Great lead performance, though; haven't heard anyone argue against that.
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You knows what, guv'nor, so does me!No, seriously.
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Try to understand others' perspectives better. Make no mountains... moreTry to understand others' perspectives better. Make no mountains of molehills.
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Very much agree with you, Welby.I'm of the opinion that how many... moreVery much agree with you, Welby.I'm of the opinion that how many people "go for" the Golden Rule is irrelevant: if how one is oneself treated becomes too much of a factor in that, we might all sink each other into disrespect. I.e. niceness is always worth striving for--perhaps all the more when it resists opposing attitudes.Thank you; always great to see you!
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Campfires, maybe, with some corn/maize on top. These are good da... moreCampfires, maybe, with some corn/maize on top. These are good days too, though.
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'Tab for a Cause' (not that I believe too strongly in their comm... more'Tab for a Cause' (not that I believe too strongly in their commitment, yet trust it does no harm) is a simple project that allows one to donate 'hearts' to several charities. I was looking at the eight options given, each concerning one of these issues: famine, health, education, human rights, access to clean water, and conservation of nature. Speaking for myself, I view these matters as intimately connected, without exception existing--persisting--due to lack of respect and of equality (both of which I would again argue to come down to the same: lack of culture).I am convinced that such an outlook is more helpful: by delineating the issue it does so for the solution as well, it restricts to a bare minimum the chaos of trying to control many factors, and hopefully resists tracking symptom rather than cause. But it is about this that I wish to ask: why might one not agree? less
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Thank you, Rosie. I very much address the "should" concerning my... moreThank you, Rosie. I very much address the "should" concerning myself, but in other contexts generally feel it can cause people to get overly defensive, countering actual argument. Happy Monday to thee too!
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Indeed they don't. The "should"-question I tend not to answer, c... moreIndeed they don't. The "should"-question I tend not to answer, certainly when it comes to the pitfalls of politics.In my case, many of the family are of the opinion that "our enemies" (not spoken so literally) will always despise us, and that we must therefore be defensive. Others and I hold that such an attitude must always lead to aggression.
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Why would I drink something of which I don't really know the con... moreWhy would I drink something of which I don't really know the contents when something more basic does the job entirely? Water all day, Randy baby.
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I shall have THE TRUTH, sir!
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The internet can be a wonderful thing, but one of its core issue... moreThe internet can be a wonderful thing, but one of its core issues is that people too readily believe what they read on it. Perhaps they simply assume that if some piece of information were wrong, it would have been corrected by the time they arrive at it. Newton did not invent break-dancing: I have here Thucydides's History that clearly affirms it was John Locke, hence the phrase "popping Locke did," thereafter bastardized as "pop-and-lock it." You people need to pick up a book every now and then. less
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Ah, remaining unremarked is the true mark of a master!
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Introspection, I reckon; challenging but perhaps therefore the m... moreIntrospection, I reckon; challenging but perhaps therefore the mark of wisdom.By definition, motivation can't be forced: as with many things, if not all, the central question is "why; where did this come from?" (and that is one sole question).EDIT: Also, those friggin' nineties, man...
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Then there is also the idea that it is but a literary myth.
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Sure, because they decide to be. Might make for better thinking.
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Wow, that's like the "one hand clapping" thing. Kudos.
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Considering it either way. People sure do like using "energy" as... moreConsidering it either way. People sure do like using "energy" as an excuse even though the nutritional value of meat is so easily replaced; not that I'm looking to start the same old fuss.
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That doesn't happen to me since I considered that lying awake is... moreThat doesn't happen to me since I considered that lying awake is also rest. In this big pot of irony that we call life, such de-emphasizing of sleep makes it easier to sleep.EDIT: My father has another technique, which is thinking of Advaita Vedanta. Puts a person right out.
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I support women doing what they want with their own bodies, yet ... moreI support women doing what they want with their own bodies, yet I often get the impression that they are in pain truly due to some social convention or beauty standard. So I try to make clear that I put comfort first in these matters, and that a gentle comfortable person must be a beautiful person.If surgery is the way to avoiding or limiting back problems (which can be extremely burdening), and I'm sure no-one will commit to it without considering other options first, then I simply say "don't suffer," or "don't allow others to push you to suffer." less
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I don't need to handle it. I'm just gifted like that. I know the... moreI don't need to handle it. I'm just gifted like that. I know the rest of you can't understand it, but arrogance simply doesn't touch me--never has; never will.(Let me clarify that's a joke, just in case, although I do reckon many arrogant people either don't recognize it in themselves or don't view it as negative.)
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A really kind gesture; I'm sure it is much appreciated.
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China to Greece--that's some earthquake!
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If so, I think we (will) get along fine. My stepgrandmother used... moreIf so, I think we (will) get along fine. My stepgrandmother used to say that professors tend to be distracted people, but not every distracted person is a professor.
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Go ahead and vent. You'll have dealt with it when ready.
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Hey Old School, just wanted to say it's good to see you around h... moreHey Old School, just wanted to say it's good to see you around here again--been a long time (I happen to be absorbed by Fallout 4 of late). All the best to you and Sharonna.
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You're very welcome, Rosie. Dictionaries and encyclopedia are pe... moreYou're very welcome, Rosie. Dictionaries and encyclopedia are peculiar things once one reads about any topic and then feels the need to jump to another. I guess all of our knowledge is such: we grow wiser as we realize how little we know, and vice versa.The reason I also mentioned asking what we are is because that's much more metaphysical (while "who we are" can be taken in many different ways, perhaps socially in the first place). And that question, I reckon, is more difficult to answer. A neighbor back in Bosnia once put it very well: in short, he posed that--considering that we have personalities, memories, experiences, virtues and vices, thoughts etc., which in that clause are grammatical 'objects'--what are we? Philosophies and religions across the world revolve around the same subject.Maybe you are an existentialist, though, since, in the meaning that mainly Sartre gives it, such a person is rather simply someone who takes all responsibility for their own being in the world. Happy Valentine's We... less
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