Traumatic brain injury disinhibition. That's exactly what it is — the filter just gets knocked out. Whatever was already in there comes out raw and unregulated now. If he was already difficult before the head injury, the injury just removed the last brake.
And you can't reason with it. You can't shame it into stopping. The mechanism that would allow him to read the room and adjust is just — gone. So he talks for an hour and a half and doesn't notice you're trying to work and doesn't notice the effect he's having on anyone around him.
That's exhausting in a specific way. Because part of your brain keeps trying to engage with it like it's a normal social situation that could be navigated, and it isn't.
What's the one thing he does that really gets under your skin?
Him making one line bomber statements like cut your eye out like it's important really violent cooperate targeting you! "Cut your eye out" said like Hitler one liner is disgusting.
