"She doesn't speak to me any longer..." "Oh, she dislikes me more..." "Impossible, I've been ignored by her for five years..."
Is this the best you (apparently adults) have to show and teach the younger audience here (down to 14 years old)? This is the kind of maturity and behaviour you think is a good example on how adults behave? Have you ever heard about ignoring those you dislike? Are you really that butt-hurt? C'mon...
This is the second time you have done this. I realize you think you are defending someone. You are not defending someone. You are assuming a lot. And no one is gossiping. If I have something to say, it is on here and it is for the person not about the person behind their back.
EVER.
And if you don't like to argue, you need to stay out of arguments that are not directed your way at all. If someone was on your thread and was talking to you in a questionable way, I might as them why IN FRONT OF YOU. That is not gossip.
If this is a discussion that is not my business then I need to keep my business to myself. Not post questions attacking something you have little knowledge of. And a relationship that has been alive for 10 years has it's own life. A life before you. I KNOW for a fact that you have TONS of issues with TONS of people yourself. So, please do not judge something you have little or no knowledge of. And please do not listen to other people who talk about me either. If you want to know anything just ask. I'll be happy to tell you if it concerns you.
When I see two senior schoolgirls in front of a group of juniors "gossiping", or should I say publicly shaming a third person I do not turn my back on them. I don't care what your ten year old feud is about.
TONS, huh? How do you define TONS? I'm not aware. IF/WHEN I had any issues with anyone I've tried to make my point directly towards THEM and not by discussing them in public in front of everyone else with a third person.
I don't listen to gossip, Sharonna. Not about others, not about you. I've told you when I felt I had something to tell you directly.
Second time? I'm not aware. If it's true you'll most likely at a time find it a third and fourth time as well. All this said, I think you're missing out on the point of my question, which by the way isn't just for your eyes. Had it been so I'd try to tell you directly. I'm not defending anyone, but the way of behaviour. End of story. Take the point or leave it.
I don't even know what we are arguing about any longer.
So have your own good day. You don't even know what it is you think you are defending and I am only interjecting my answer because it is some screwed up version of something you know very little about. We all talk to each other on here about everything. That is the idea. And if you cannot understand what is going on, I think it is better to err on the side of staying out of it.
You are compelled, it seems to make comments. So, go ahead. Just don't expect me to sit back and listen without commenting right back atcha.
I know you think you are the soul of politeness but you are also the soul of judgmentalism here.
I'm not arguing. You make some wild accusations and I replied on them. I've once been spammed by you because you thought I wasn't going to reply on your comments. You should by now know I always reply back at a time. If you make accusations better have something to back it up. I don't take crap, by any!
This reply was for your original comment, before you edited it.
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 16, 2016 3:43 PM MST
SH too bad you have no clue what the topic even is. I believe this passive-aggressive commentary of yours deals with something that passed between me, Jane, Ranpolage and NOW you.
Everyone besides you has had some background on this topic. It is funny. That is all. Just funny stuff. No one is attacking. No one is gossiping and no one needs to feel like they have to answer to you and this judgmental attitude of how we need to conduct themselves with other members.
The member in question gives as good as she gets and does not need a publicity agent nor a public defender to take her side. And it is all in fun. No one is in a serious conflict about this whatsoever.
But how would YOU know that? You just got here and decided to insert your opinion and you are way off the beam.
This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at November 16, 2016 5:37 PM MST
LET ME REPEAT MYSELF: I don't care, I care about a very less flattering, gossiping/slandering behaviour. I don't take party on who said what. I diss the means used. Seems to fly way over your head.
One more time, my reply was made for the original comment and not the edited version.
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 16, 2016 4:08 PM MST
No. Not at all. Very little happens to get past me. But, it is interesting you mention this because people have a tendency to point fingers in the opposite direction of where they should be pointed. I am not the one that has everything going over her head. That is not me. Look again. You do not want to address the content of what I am saying.
But, you can never stop without having the last word. You cannot do it.
This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at November 16, 2016 4:07 PM MST
This will be my last one for you on this thread. You are not listening. Help yourself and take the last word if you like. Bye.
And one more time, my reply was made for the original comment and not the edited version.
This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 16, 2016 4:09 PM MST
Noop. Thinking out loud about behaviour noticed, and asking a question about it won't be defined as gossiping. I'm not pointing fingers at named persons. Whether you want to take part in the party or not is solely up to you (and your gossip sister who felt like dropping names). I wasn't going, and have NOT mentioned names, or made hints at who inspired my question. You got to thank someone else for being mentioned inside the threads here.
Seriously? You are justifying your public shaming by saying you didn't mention names? You and another UNNAMED member have a lot in common. I hope you and your new BFF have a lovely day.
Public shaming? There won't be anything shaming unless people don't feel they can justify their doings. Btw, I have no new BFF. My comment were made about a behavior I couldn't avoid becoming aware about as it was made underneath one of my replies in a thread. Be my guest. Bye.
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