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Do you go with the flow or do you lead the flow?

Posted - November 26, 2016

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  • I am very much a go with the flow type... i pretty much am easy when it comes to doing things as i am happy to do anything, go anywhere..eat anything, drink anything.. i am truly not fussy.. and i am the same in live..happy to see what life brings me..
      November 26, 2016 9:02 AM MST
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  • Bez

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    Neither, really. I've never really been either a leader or a follower. I just like to do my own thing.
      November 26, 2016 9:07 AM MST
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  • 1523
    Go with it.
      November 26, 2016 12:23 PM MST
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  • I build a dam. This post was edited by Benedict Arnold at November 26, 2016 8:15 PM MST
      November 26, 2016 2:38 PM MST
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  • Does the dam have controllable spillways?
    Does it generate hydro-electric power?
    Does it feed an irrigation and supply system?
    How does it affect the downstream ecologies and livelihoods?

    I suspect that building a dam puts you in the leader's role.
      November 26, 2016 8:14 PM MST
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  • No
    No
    No
    Terribly
      November 26, 2016 8:19 PM MST
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  • I choose the flow that helps carry me where I want to go.

    Imagine a sailor who must use navigation, allow for currents, winds, weather, and underwater shoals, must tack across headwinds, meet big waves at 90º, and must through all this manage to arrive at the chosen destination. In that situation, I'm mostly either a deckhand or a soloist.

    On leadership - the following is horribly wibbly-wobbly, but I think that's how I am.
    I might choose to try to set an example, but in all other respects be passive, not giving any directions unless asked.
    Although I can shift roles if I have to, usually I'm neither the leader nor the led, but sail in partnership with Ari.
    I will step up if I have to. Back when I was a teacher, I found I had no difficulty in leading.
    If I have a preference, it is to take a background position, to sometimes influence with gentle nudges but otherwise leave it to the leaders to lead.
      November 26, 2016 8:08 PM MST
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  • 3934
    I mostly get overwhelmed by the flow....;-D...

      November 26, 2016 8:51 PM MST
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  • 326
      November 27, 2016 2:21 AM MST
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  • i ignore the flow and am generally  unaware of it  .  yet  it  sometimes shows itself  catching up  to wherever i am ,  even if   just  briefly .  ;-)

      November 27, 2016 2:54 AM MST
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