Well, if you're concerned your spouse might one day swing it upside your head, perhaps you'd be better off opting for a lightweight aluminum pan....;-D...
That was always the gift my husband's Grandmother always gave at weddings. She said every wife needed one just in case she needed to straighten her husband out. She always played it as a joke but I do think she also was partially serious about it. Lol
I have a whole set of cast iron cookware and I really love it. But it is so heavy that if I make soup or stew in the dutch oven, I can hardly lift it. Do you season the frying pan?