I am making the assumption this was said in humour? Only Kirk is my hero and I never saw him behave in an inappropriate way towards a female or member of any alien race. Indeed we saw that he took his duties and responsibilities so seriously that he passed up many an opportunity; so it was quite the reverse.. you wondered why he didn't more often....
Partailly, but something I've pondered for as long as I been a Star trek fan which is most of my life. There was a lot of bestiality going on in all the series.
I've been a trekie since I was a kid.. I loved it... would do anything to watch it... but was rarely allowed.. I still think it had much that was way ahead of it's time.
Now I am NOT known for my innocence when it comes to matters sexual.. quite the reverse :P but are you sure we were watching the same episodes? LOL maybe you got episodes we didn't? Cos I never saw any bestiality! I must have missed that :P
Wellll in his defence... it wouldn't be ethical to fraternise with the crew... see it was way ahead of its time.. and we all know it's not a good idea to have a fling/affair with a work colleague... SO what was he supposed to do? And see although the myth is that we Brits are cynical.. I take the optimist view here.. He was just being charming :P He may have flirted with them, charmed them but that was just to ease inter-galactic relations..
I maintain i saw nothing inappropriate and he remains my hero :P