City, town, rural? What sort of people lived near you? Do you miss it?
My childhood was not idyllic for several reasons, but the environs where I lived until I was 13 will sound that way. We lived on the outskirts of a tiny town and as kids we roamed free until dark. We played in the woods, played in the swamp, went sledding on the backyard hills, hiked to town to shop at the dime store, or to go swimming or ice skating at the lake. The town also had an amusement park and at least once each summer there was an event which allowed us to go on the rides for free.
There were enough neighbor kids to play with and the neighbors looked out for each others’ kids. No babysitter needed; they could be told ‘go play at Jane’s house’ and the parents were free to go shopping or whatever. If a parent called for a kid to come home and he was not in earshot, other parents or kids would pick up the call and pass it on until the kid came running. We also could hear the noon and 6 p.m whistles from the fire station in town which were our signals to return to home base for lunch and dinner.
The area used to be a truck farm and we had asparagus, raspberry bushes, plum trees, and other fruits that we could pick freely without having to garden. Our backyard had six apple trees just perfect for climbing. Our home’s former owner was an avid flower gardener and the yard was filled with peonies, hollyhocks, poppies, iris, tulips, pansies and probably more that I have forgotten.
As a kid, I took all this for granted. When we moved to the city, I was too busy with a whole other set of adventures to miss it. All my life I’ve found it easy to adapt to new environments and I rarely find myself living in the past. But I kind of enjoyed this look back on the good parts of childhood.