The question seems to sum you up in a general sort of way. You seem to be a free spirit, alive with curiosity and questions about all that surrounds you and gives life its wonderful mystery and joy. Yet, you somehow cling to the traditional and time proven when it comes to relational matters. This is revealed in your questions about men put to the test and finding the courage to be worthy of a woman's special mystique and charms. You're intrigued by this ancient rite of passage that elevates a male to control in the recesses of a woman's heart and mind. Of course, I could be spitting in the wind. It's just an impression.