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What's the ideal number of practice marriages to have before you try the real thing?

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Posted - July 17, 2016

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  • 17261
    I'm not sure if there is an ideal. We do say practice helps us becoming better at things. It's a question if this also goes for number of marriages.
      July 17, 2016 2:14 AM MDT
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  • 167

    Oh good question. Right now I am wonder how many practice engagements do you get before successfully making it to the alter & saying "I Do".I am on #3 right now & it is falling apart. I don't think there is enough tape or glue to fix it this time. Love should come with a manual because I can't seem to make it work & not a clue what I am doing wrong.

      July 17, 2016 10:39 AM MDT
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  • 46117

    That depends on who you are practicing on.  Make sure it is on the other person's dime or you won't afford being able to do it more than once. Make sure you take the victim to the cleaners or there may not be a second chance unless you are practicing on the highly gullible.

    People who are broke are not attractive, no matter what they look like. 

      July 17, 2016 10:41 AM MDT
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  • 167

    Oh I am so happy for the both of you. I wish you two a lifetime of happiness. 

      July 17, 2016 10:42 AM MDT
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  • Living with someone might be a good "practice".  But even living together isn't necessarily going to guarantee your marriage would work.  Marriage is so many things .. and a lot of it is knowing if you're in for the long haul.  If you're able to sustain a relationship when the realities of bills and kids, etc. become a part of the mix.  Best idea is NOT to get married until you are sure you're with the right person for you.

      July 17, 2016 11:00 AM MDT
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  • 3934

    Alas, the statistical evidence suggests "practice marriages" lead to nothing but more divorce.

    While the overall dissolution rate of marriages in the US is around 50%, the rate for second, third, and higher number divorces is MUCH higher (80%+ if I remember correctly).

    As Oscar Wilde said, marriage is the triumph of hope over experience....;-D...

      July 17, 2016 11:06 AM MDT
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  • 7939

      July 17, 2016 4:35 PM MDT
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      July 17, 2016 4:35 PM MDT
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  • 7939

    Oh no. I'm sorry to hear that. However, having it fall apart before the I-Dos is better than after. Perhaps those engagements would not have led to healthy marriages. In which case, it's far better to let them go.

      July 17, 2016 4:37 PM MDT
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  • 7939

      July 17, 2016 4:37 PM MDT
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  • 86

    Zero.

      July 17, 2016 4:37 PM MDT
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  • 7939

      July 17, 2016 4:37 PM MDT
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      July 17, 2016 4:37 PM MDT
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  • Just marry the first Russian bride you can find online and everything should be good.

      July 17, 2016 4:45 PM MDT
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  • 3934

      July 17, 2016 4:46 PM MDT
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  • I think I am in my 30th practice marriage... i'm trying to practice marry Mr. B. he's so pessimist. It's so dreamy. :0)
      July 17, 2016 4:51 PM MDT
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  • 7939

    lol Maybe that's why your online marriages have failed. They needed to fail so you could be free for Mr. B. 

      July 17, 2016 5:38 PM MDT
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  • 7939

      July 17, 2016 5:38 PM MDT
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  • 7939

    *punches Al in the face*

      July 17, 2016 5:38 PM MDT
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      July 17, 2016 5:38 PM MDT
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  • 1002

    For me, zero. I'm reluctant to do it once. But if I ever do and it doesn't turn out the way I'd like, I'm not doing it a second time! lol

      July 17, 2016 6:23 PM MDT
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  •   July 18, 2016 11:23 AM MDT
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  • Bez

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    It's best not to have "practice marriages" at all. It's better to live with a partner unmarried at first, if not permanently. Marriage is not really necessary anyway, especially not "practice marriage". Have you thought about the possible cost of all those divorces? You could spend all that money on things you want to collect if you didn't squander it on such useless enterprises as "practice marriages".

      July 18, 2016 11:27 AM MDT
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  • Bez

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    My wife and I.

      July 18, 2016 11:27 AM MDT
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