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nobodylair.37

At what age exactly should you have your sh*t together?

is it 93? 

Posted - May 8, 2017
Tag : like there needs to be one it can't be just left for us to decide someone make an instruction book or a brochure even toasters have one oh seriously now this what is this

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  • 2327
    95. Would you drive 90 mph on the highway when you're 95-years-old? And total your Ford Escape by hitting someone's dog. Would that be having your sh*t together? 
      May 8, 2017 8:46 PM MDT
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  • 745
    no, I would never hit a dog.. someone? very likely. but never a dog. This post was edited by nobodylair.37 at May 8, 2017 8:49 PM MDT
      May 8, 2017 8:49 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    Umm won't that be a bit messy....together...!!!!
      May 8, 2017 8:50 PM MDT
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  • 745
    I think your reply has the wrong address, Veena ;P
      May 8, 2017 8:54 PM MDT
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  • 7683
    Yesterday's pizza having its effect, pizza princess;))
      May 8, 2017 9:06 PM MDT
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  • 745
    I think leaving my mess as it is is my way of saying, "will you look at that, you can tell I was here!"

    life is a beautiful chaos, thank you for sharing some of it here. :)

      May 8, 2017 9:16 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    Hi nobodylair~ I would say anytime it feels right for the person.  There is no time barrier or expected deadline.  Everyone is different.  Life itself is a journey of learning.  I don't think anyone actually has their sh*t together.  If they think they have, the have given up or bottomed out.  Reaching a plateau is one thing.  Stopping the desire to learn and better themselves is another.  I do believe you can be comfortable with yourself and I urge that.  I don't think you should ever stop reaching for goals and bettering yourself to help others and help yourself, too. 
      May 8, 2017 9:01 PM MDT
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  • Ah crap there's an age for that? How about neverrrrrrrrr!
      May 8, 2017 9:05 PM MDT
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  • 745
    yesssssssssss!!  This post was edited by nobodylair.37 at May 8, 2017 10:34 PM MDT
      May 8, 2017 9:12 PM MDT
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  • 7795
    I'd love to put and number on this, but it's impossible. It depends on the person and his circumstances.
      May 8, 2017 9:34 PM MDT
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  • 17614
    If there are no unexpected reasons, people should be ready for the world by early 20s.    I was ready at 18 but I'm giving the males the benefit here.  Some of them seem to get there a little later than we gals. 
      May 8, 2017 10:11 PM MDT
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  • 2465
    I hope I live long enough to achieve it. 
      May 9, 2017 1:10 AM MDT
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  • I would say by 20. I had my shit together between 20 and mid 40ish .. then started on the downhill. Now I'm all jacked up again :-/
      May 9, 2017 4:26 AM MDT
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  • 10026
    Hi Jett~  Does that mean you are between 20 and 40 or does that mean you just took a big hit?  Either way, you are on the up and up and that is good news
      May 9, 2017 10:26 AM MDT
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  • I even confused my self :)

    I'm much older ... those were the years I felt good about having it all together. It seems that the next decade after, was a roller coaster, with life in general. The last few years have been much better. Thanks!
     
      May 9, 2017 11:34 AM MDT
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  • 369
    The Bible says that Man and Women will live for three score years and ten................so that is seventy.............Seventy is your life span and that is that if you live a bit longer that is a bonus.

      May 9, 2017 2:23 PM MDT
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