It seems to me when you "win" you get to call the shots. How often does the loser dictate to the winner what will be done? Why would the winner pay attention to what the loser demands and capitulate?

Board games. We have a rule that the loser gets to pick the next game. I'm guessing this has nothing to do with whatever prompted your question, but that's how we play at my house. 

No JA it doesn't. It has do with the Bernie Sanders folks and their demands. And it has to do with Bernie Sanders and his demands. Clinton has capitulated a lot to accommodate them and it still isn't enough for them. Since when does the loser make demands and create problems? I don't get it. Politics is not a logical enterprise. Thank you for your reply and Happy Wednesday! :)

The loser of a fixed boxing match who takes a dive would sometimes dictate how much money to take the fall.

Whoa!!!

  JA, we do the same thing playing poker.

One maybe the winner but it doesn't mean you can't listen to the others ideas etc, the other option would be a dictator.