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Those of you fortunate and reckless enough to fall in love and lust, what was it like your first time? Were you terrified? How are things now?

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Posted - July 27, 2016

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  • 19937
    Why would you put this in the "paranormal" section?
      July 27, 2016 2:21 PM MDT
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  • 477

    paranormal
    ˌperəˈnôrm(ə)l/
    adjective
    denoting events or phenomena such as telekinesis or clairvoyance that are beyond the scope of normal scientific understanding. 
    "a mystic who can prove he has paranormal powers"

    » clairvoyance 
    ˌklerˈvoiəns/
    noun
    the supposed faculty of perceiving things or events in the future or beyond normal sensory contact.
    "she stared at the card as if she could contact its writer by clairvoyance"
    synonyms: ESP, extrasensory perception, sixth sense, psychic powers, second sight; telepathy
    "I'm not sure how much confidence I have in Miss ZuZu's clairvoyance" 

    » The term clairvoyance (from French clair meaning "clear" and voyance meaning "vision") is the alleged ability to gain information about an object, person, location or physical event through extrasensory perception. 

    »» extrasensory perception. : perception that involves awareness of information about events external to the self not gained through the senses and not deducible from previous experience.

    ■■■ In other words, it's paranormal to me! 

      July 27, 2016 2:30 PM MDT
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  • 477

    I don't believe in telepathy or anything like that, but this is a new kind of sensation for me, that's all. 

    Now could you answer my question, please?

      July 27, 2016 2:32 PM MDT
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  • 411

    Enjoy it while it lasts, Lemon.

      July 27, 2016 6:44 PM MDT
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  • 19937

    No, I will not answer your question because I don't discuss my personal sex life nor do I care to hear about anyone else's sex life. 

    If you feel as though you had an "out of body" experience, enjoy it.

      July 27, 2016 8:30 PM MDT
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  • 477

    I'd like to clarify: it's not only about sex. If you don't care to respond, though, I understand. 

      July 28, 2016 4:11 PM MDT
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  • 477

    Thanks, Oscar!

      July 28, 2016 7:13 PM MDT
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  • 46117

    fortunate and reckless?

    Isn't that what we all do?  I mean at least we do this a lot in our teens and 20's.    Who isn't?  Who doesn't think that the love they have is ALL THERE IS??? 

    I know I am not the only one.  There are millions of boring movies about this exact subject.   I will add this.  If you keep that searching and wanting that giddy insane feeling and you are over 40, you need therapy. 

    Enough already.

    Being 40 and wanting to be 20 is pathetic.  Chasing men or vice-versa is best left to the very young and stupid. 

      July 28, 2016 7:18 PM MDT
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  • 7939

    *whispers* This is the clean section anyway, so sex talk is verboten. 

    Carry on, I was never here. :)

      July 30, 2016 4:41 AM MDT
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  • 19937

      July 30, 2016 6:30 AM MDT
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  • 19937

      July 30, 2016 6:30 AM MDT
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  • 5808
    Yeah
    Been through all of that...
    Now I have no desire for sex
    Which is a fantastic thing haha
    Sexual desire is so strong.
      July 30, 2016 11:44 AM MDT
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  • 46

    For my first time, I didn't dare to make the first move. She did. It was just sexual.

    The following times have been more about love since then.

      August 5, 2016 2:48 PM MDT
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  • 477

    I don't think you and I have the same understanding here. I waited a while to try and come up with a relatable response, but I can't seem to find one. I guess I just don't get it. Maybe I just can't see it the way you do. I don't mean to disagree for the sake of disagreeing, but I don't think it's "what we all do". Many people treat people like sh*t and call it "love" because it's convenient and they use it to their advantage. Also, I don't know where the last bit came from... The 40s thing... That's another subject, I think. Are you saying love is limited to certain age groups? That love is only for the young and stupid? What is it beyond that, then? 

    I'm not saying there's only one love in life, but I'm wondering about peoples' experiences with their first love. Most people here seem to think I mean it in a sexual way, but I'm not talking about just that. I'm talking about the first time you felt really connected with someone on a deeper level. How did you know? How did it turn out in the end? Oh well. If you're feeling up for it, maybe you could share. 

      August 6, 2016 10:49 AM MDT
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