Veena, all I can do is answer from a personal perspective. I admit, and accept, the deprivation is all of my own making. I don't like to get dragged into someone else's drama/psycho b.s. when all I'm looking for is a little fun and enjoyment. When new relationships are difficult from the get go, I find it's best to cut your losses before you get sucked into their melodramatic crapola any further. Best to ensure you don't become the object of that person's obsession and/or anger.