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What are some things that sound like compliments but are actually insults?

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Posted - December 17, 2017
Tag : What are some things that sound like compliments but are actually insults?

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  • 44652
    When someone swears at you and calls you names like MF etc, just say "Ah I see your high intelligence is showing."
      December 17, 2017 11:21 AM MST
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  • 13071
    Thats how I feel every time I hear someone swear on a regular basis. LOL
      December 17, 2017 11:45 AM MST
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  • "You look so great I didn't even recognize you!"
      December 17, 2017 11:46 AM MST
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  • 3191
    "Well,  bless your heart!" 
      December 17, 2017 12:07 PM MST
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  • Yup!  That's about the equivalent of going to Charm School and learning to say "fantastic" instead of bullsh*t." :))
      December 17, 2017 12:17 PM MST
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  • 3191
    Some have raised it to an art form. :) 
      December 17, 2017 12:23 PM MST
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  • 17619
    It lives down South.
      December 17, 2017 1:54 PM MST
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  • 13071
    Yes, I learned that. I am a native Californian and when I heard my Southern Mother in law say that to me, I thought she was being a concerned loving mother in law. Until later on when I found out she was just being good at being a mother in law. LOL
      December 17, 2017 1:58 PM MST
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  • 13071
    I despise that one. My mother in law used to use that one on me ALL the time. ;+
      December 17, 2017 1:56 PM MST
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  • 46117
    I don't listen to the words. I listen to the tone.  

    That is what makes things nasty or nice.


    WOW.  That looks spectacular on you.
    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at December 17, 2017 1:56 PM MST
      December 17, 2017 12:18 PM MST
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  • 17619
    Oh look at you!!!  You've had a haircut.  
      December 17, 2017 1:55 PM MST
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  • 13071
    I get that a lot. Maybe I shouldnt cut my own hair. ;+
      December 17, 2017 1:56 PM MST
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  • 17619
    I cut my own too.
      December 17, 2017 1:59 PM MST
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  • 13071
    Its looks great, really. ;I
      December 17, 2017 2:01 PM MST
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  • 22891
    not sure right now
      December 17, 2017 4:23 PM MST
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  • 3719
    Well-meaning but utterly deflating "encouragement" like, "it's easy, anyone can do it!", and "you can do anything if you put your mind to it."

    Lies, both of them, because the victim obviously can't do whatever it is.
      December 31, 2017 2:12 PM MST
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