I hear ya m'dear. Us too. Jim and I met late in life. We each had been around the barn before, so to speak. I was almost 60 and he was almost 62. We've been together 20 years! Imagine that? When folks say maintaining good relationships is very hard work it puzzles me. If it's a good fit and right where does the hard work come in? I'm gonna ask. Thank you for your reply tom! Good on ya. I"m sure your wife feels the same! :)