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I think you have to have some years of experience and be able to look back at how well you handled decisions in your life. I think if you are mentally healthy, you won't have an inflated ego, nor will you be willing to beat yourself up at every turn of the corner.
I think that's just about as perfect an answer as I could think of m'dear. I do. I think you are exactly right. When you're very young you don't have any landmarks or signposts



or guidelines to fall back on . You haven't created or lived them yet. Thank you for your thoughtful answer PeaPod and Happy Wednesday! :)