Don't know about that. But Viagra and other similar drugs have become big business in recent years. And while I'm sure some men take them to increase their performance in general I do think that now many women who have become accustomed to receiving a certain level of performance from their men are, as they age, let's say hesitant to give it up. So in other words I think our enjoyment well into middle and even old age has prompted many men to buy these drugs. Which can be very effective. I once spent some weekends with men who took Cialis and they were able to accomplish some amazing things. And they were only in their mid-later 40s.
However such drugs used over time are harmful to men and the risks are known but because they are such a young industry the negative affects have only started proliferating. So I would not want my husband to take them and be harmed by them. But on the other hand am I able to accept just a normal decline in what he does with me as he ages? Do I allow him to just be himself and age naturally or do I consciously or unconsciously send him a message that I want him to stay at the same level of performance which might make him reach for such drugs and risk harming himself? Of course the choice would be his but I know I would rather have him live longer and be healthier longer rather than when the time comes just being able to give me a few more years of sexual enjoyment.
I think about this a lot and we have talked about it.
