Discussion»Statements»Rosie's Corner» Being a beautiful intelligent faithful wife does not guarantee that your husband won't betray you/cheat on you. What does? Why?
Very true!! It's actually not unusual to see a man cheat on a beautiful woman. It's about power for him and lack of commitment towards anyone.
There is no way I would have ever chosen to be with a married man in the day, thinking he would not do the same to me. Most people that cheat do it throughout their lives unless something drastically changes inside them.
Cheating/betraying is lying. Whenever you lie to anyone it is the height of disrespect. It means you think very little of that person and are showing disdain/contempt. Not too swell for the person on the receiving end of it. Once a cheater always a cheater just as once a liar always a liar. If you think you are the one special enough to change a person you aren't. If they do it with you they will do it to you. I read that doofus don cheated with Melania while married to Marla Maples just as he cheated with Marla while married to Ivanna. But he also had other multiples of dames in his bed from prostitutes to porn stars and everything in-between. Those were the consensuals. In addition he sexually abused almost 20 women who have accused him of it. . A real jewel that one! Thank you for your reply PeaPod! :)
This post was edited by RosieG at February 20, 2018 2:03 AM MST
Exactly right. I cannot have a relationship with anyone I don't trust. Too many times, I told myself that I was just being overly sensitive when something didn't feel right. Well, my intuition is usually spot on.
Me too neither Pea Pod. If they do it once how do you know they won't do it again? A kind lie to spare someone's feelings I think is loving though. You don't tell a dying person "you look like he**". There are truths that don't need to be told so you withhold them. What's the point of telling a widow that her husband cheated on her? How does that help? So you have to use common sense and kindness. Thank you for your reply PeaPod and Happy Tuesday! :)
Sadly what you wrote is precisely what any faithful and committed-to-the-marriage-and-the-wife husband would say. Why do I say "sadly"? Because my dear they are not all like you or my Jim or my dear brother-in-law. That's why. I wish they were. It would make things so much cleaner, clearer, brighter, shinier, nicier! Thank you for your reply tom! :)
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