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Benedict Arnold

at what point does a preference become a sexual fetish?

for example: I personally find Asian men more attractive than other men just based on physical features. Its No different than saying “I prefer blondes over brunettes“ or “I prefer tall men over short men”.  So at what point does this type of preference become a sexual fetish? Is it when you start looking at a whole race (or any specific group of people) as sexual objects or is it at a point before that? 

Posted - March 9, 2018
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  • 46117
    Honey, preferring a certain type of looking man is not a fetish.  

    Not even close.   Unless you can only get off by sitting on his slanty eyes or something.



    fet·ish
    ˈfediSH/
    noun
    noun: fetish; plural noun: fetishes

    1.
    a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.
    "Victorian men developed fetishes focusing on feet, shoes, and boots"
    synonyms: fixation, obsession, compulsion, mania; More
    weakness, fancy, fascination, fad;
    informalthing, hang-up
    "he developed a bodybuilding fetish"
    an excessive and irrational devotion or commitment to a particular thing.
    "he had a fetish for writing more opinions each year than any other justice"
    2.
    an inanimate object worshiped for its supposed magical powers or because it is considered to be inhabited by a spirit.
    synonyms: juju, talisman, charm, amulet; More
    totem, idol, image, effigy
    "an African fetish"

    Origin
    early 17th century (originally denoting an object used by the peoples of West Africa as an amulet or charm): from French fétiche, from Portuguese feitiço ‘charm, sorcery’ (originally an adjective meaning ‘made by art’), from Latin factitius (see factitious).
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    Use over time for: fetish

    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at March 10, 2018 7:40 AM MST
      March 9, 2018 4:44 PM MST
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  • I know, I know. I’m just curious about others opinions on this because I found a comment section on Facebook and people are sh*tting on this girl for saying something pretty vulgar and sexual about men of another race. 
    But no one can seem to draw a line between what isn’t a fetish And what is. 
      March 9, 2018 4:47 PM MST
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  • 46117
    I got ya.  Not judging.  HONEST.  LOL
      March 9, 2018 9:32 PM MST
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  • 10052
    "Unless you can only get off by sitting on his slanty eyes or something."

    OMG - I nearly peed myself when I read that!! That's some funny sheit, Sharonna!!! 
      March 9, 2018 9:09 PM MST
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  • 46117
    What is WRONG with me? 

    Don't encourage me.

      March 9, 2018 9:34 PM MST
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  • 2327
    I don't think it is. When I think of the word fetish, I think more along the lines of an unusual sexual activity. Like feet worship, trampling and whipping. 
      March 9, 2018 5:40 PM MST
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  • 46117
    Yeah.  That weird-ass, stuff.

      March 9, 2018 9:35 PM MST
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  • 686
    Tell you the truth.  I don't know.  I like women who wear trash bags and I also like wearing trash bags, so I have been trying to figure this out as well.  I like wearing unused plastic garbage, trash, bin bag/liners and sometimes I have trouble blurring the lines between the two.
      March 9, 2018 9:37 PM MST
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