Contingency is key. Source. If you like the person saying/doing IT you embrace IT. If you dis you abhor attack IT. Mind you there is zero difference in the "IT". "IT" can be identical in either circumstance and it matters not one whit or one bit. So "IT" on its own alone independent of source is unthinkable/unknowable/uncommentable. You will never know if you accept/like until you know the source. Source is everything. Meaning of anything is totally irrelevant. Honor. Truth. Justice. Integrity. Nothing matters on its own for its own sake absent knowing the source of it. SIGH. I wonder why?