If it's OKAY for one person to do/say whatever why isn't it also OKAY for everyone else to do/say whatever? What's the magic line or set of circumstances that confers "special" on someone and gives him/her carte blanche while others not so fortunate are given no leeway at all? Is there a guide to that? Who's OK and who isn't? What's OK and what isn't? Who sez so and who doesn't?