Have you ever considered getting a divorce? Ever had a battle so bad that one of you left to go elsewhere? Or is your marriage generally a peaceful place to be with both partners co-equals who like each first and foremost all the time and will forever love each other for the long run even when you disagree? Do you look forward to being at home alone or do you like it better when you're spouse is there with you even if you are doing different things in different rooms? Do you light up when you see your spouse? Do you still get a "tingle" when you see him/her even after all the years you've been together? Is he/she still the only one you want to grow old with? Do you hold hands when you go out and about? I hope your marriage isn't a war zone. No one deserves to live that kind of life.
