Which annoys you more? Being around a very needy insecure man or a very needy insecure woman? Why?

I have no patience for such folks L. None. So I go out of my way to never be in their company if at all possible. I don't like to be unkind but I tire quickly of the "woe is me" sameoldsameoldsameold. Thank you for your reply! :)

I agree.  People like that will suck the life out of you if you let them.  Happy Friday. :)

Yep. I'm getting too old to have any life sucked out of me by others L.  Thank you for your reply! :)

I am, too. :)

You are a very puzzling person. This reply versus some of the others you give makes me think you are bifurcated. One version of you is thoughtful  civil and  shares views in a pleasant cordial manner.This you is clearly annoyed by the question so why go out of your way to be annoyed? Why not simply ignore questions that make this side of you come out? Just wonderin'. I don't understand your first sentence at all. Your second one? Well I'm not gonna lie. "Goodness get a life for God's sake". You know zero about me yet you assume I have no life? Ah. I shall ask a question about that. Thanks

Dear Rosie , I am sorry for the misunderstanding and I guess you have had enough criticism from me over the years you assume it was meant as such.   But really I was addressing that comment to the kind of men you call "needy" who seem unable to do anything without asking if it is alright or if I am OK with it.  I believe that men should have their own lives they are sufficiently absorbed by and contented with  and they should not look to us for a life.  So that is what I would say in general to needy insecure men.  Sorry about the misunderstanding.  
Donna

Apologies. I really blew it didn't I? That tag line was not directed at me but such men. Sorry og. I shall try to do better. I promise.

Like the kids say "no worries".  We all get a little sensitive around here! 

Me too although it's a tad more annoying in men. I can't tell you why DB it just is. Thank you for your reply and Happy Friday to thee! :)

Me too neither Rizz. I have no patience for the drama and the "woe is me" personality. Thank you for your reply! :)

You’re quite welcome.