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You experience something and say "It's OK. I don't mind" . Is that the TRUE you or is that the white lie you who avoids making waves?

Posted - November 24, 2018

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    Is it really okay?  Do you really not mind?  

    If it is not, you are stuffing fear.  Probably fear of rejection and not being accepted in some way.

    I don't mind?  That is the PERFECT and HEALTY way to take each episode that disappoints. If you truly allow what is to just be.  That is the way of peace.  Let it BE.

    Do not react.  You are not responsible for MINDING.  That is your ego.  When you shut out your rattling, disturbed, disappointed monkey mind?  You have something else.  You have the watcher.  Who is disappointed?  Who is watching?  The mind is the one who chooses to be angry and the soul is just a moment away.  If you take a breath and shut out the thought, the soul can come through and give you a much more profound voice.  The voice of SILENCE and just knowing how to react with no fear.

    You are not your personality.  This TRUTH will set you free.  Stop being attached to what you think you want to present to the world.  Face everyone with a smile and much love.  I swear if I saw Trump?  I would beam love at him.  It would disconcert him or it would be accepted. 

    If I glared hatred at him?  What did I accomplish.  He is ready to aim back and he is in a position where he thinks he is right and powerful because he can have you jailed or killed.  The least thing he would retort with is having my life destroyed.  Good enough.  I will let him destroy his own life. He is doing a great job.  And I will not destroy mine because I could not handle a malignant narcissist.  He has no power over me.   He responds to fake admiration. Because he is fake.  Unconditional true love aimed in his direction would probably make him get so itchy, he would have to leave the podium.

    This post was edited by WM BARR . =ABSOLUTE TRASH at November 24, 2018 8:18 AM MST
      November 24, 2018 7:55 AM MST
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    In May 2010 I experienced a very big hurt that changed my life Sharon. It is I to whom I keep saying "it's OK. I don't mind". It isn't OK. I do mind. But that mantra goes through my brain repeatedly and has since May 2010. I cannot shut it off. Thank you for your reply and the graphic. I can't share it. It hurts too much.
      November 24, 2018 8:19 AM MST
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