This is for you gals. Do you enjoy the right to dress as you choose or must your choices be controlled/directed/dictated by someone else? Could you live like that? How?

I don't mean do you try to please your S/O. Of course we all do that from time to time. But who chooses? You or someone else? I think it is the right of women to dress as they choose and not be constrained by men who control them. Some women live like that. I could not. Could you? How?