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Which is harder for you to do? Connecting or disconnecting with others? Because?

Posted - March 23, 2019

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  • 10772
    I have a hard time connecting because I'm a social introvert.  That means I find it nearly impossible to connect.
      March 23, 2019 11:10 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    I was a painfully shy child Shuhak as I have told you before. I'm still an introvert but what keeps pulling me out of my shell are the questions I ask daily. I am forced to speak out about whatever I'm thinking. Now connecting is very nice and when it happens it is very much appreciated. But frankly if no one ever replied I'd still have to ask all the questions I ask. To rid my brain of the zillions of things that make no sense to me at all! My hope is that what doesn't make sense to me makes sense to others and they will share that with me. Some do. Thank you for your reply Shuhak. I think connectng and disconnecting are both exceedingly easy for me. I get attached bigly quickly but I detach quickly and easily. I do not know what that says about me but there it is!  :) This post was edited by RosieG at March 24, 2019 9:59 AM MDT
      March 24, 2019 2:55 AM MDT
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  • 10772
    You maybe a thinking introvert.
      March 24, 2019 10:00 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Is that a GOOD thing or a not-so-hot thing? I dunno. It matters not because as they say it is what it is and  there's nothing I can do about it. I'm stuck being me. Thank you for your reply! :)
      March 24, 2019 11:06 AM MDT
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  • 10772
    It's neither good nor bad.  It's simply your personality.  
      March 24, 2019 1:59 PM MDT
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  • 113301
    I disagree. Neither good nor bad is a concept I have great difficulty comprehending. Thank you for your reply.
      March 25, 2019 1:21 AM MDT
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  • i have a hard time disconnecting because i latch on to and idolize  anyone who is remotely nice to me 

    until i split on them anyway
      March 23, 2019 11:19 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    As I've gotten older I've found that attaching and detaching are both very easy for me. I connect easily and quickly but I disconnect just as easily and quickly. Was I always like that? No. But as one ages one learns to keep what matters and discard what doesn't. That way the baggage doesn't slow you down. I'm gonna  ask. Thank you for your reply boku w sekkusu daisuki and Happy Sundy to thee! :)
      March 24, 2019 2:59 AM MDT
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