For instance those who sleep around either wantonly promiscuously or have a hot affair with one person cannot possibly LOVE their spouses. In my definition thereof. People do say they do love their spouses but "oh you kid"! Bullsh**! Why marry and then tarry sexually emotionally with others? Financially and socially it "looks good" to be married even if you are swine or an alley cat. Appearances are EVERYTHING you see and whatever lies beneath is meaningless. What about ethically and morally and spiritually and emotionally? What? Am I kidding? Am I joking? Anyone who betrays cons scams a "loved one" has no concerns about "the other stuff". Sheesh.