Wouldn't it be GREAT if we could choose the things we'd like to remain the same/choose what we'd like to change and it would happen?

Some changes you control. Some you don't. It's the ones you don't that you usually dislike. SIGH. Maybe one day. Of course there is the problem that what I want to remain the same you don't and what I want to change you don't. Thus war begins when we are at odds!  :(