What kinda guy turns you on, sets your heart afire and makes you beg for more? Why? The boorish bad brazen bully or the exact opposite thereof? Does the Dondonjohn float your boat, ring your chimes, take you to heaven and ecstasy with how he be he? Do you fantasize about him dream about him have a life-size photo of him on your wall by your bed? Have you built an altar where there is room for candles so that you can look at him as you pray for and to him? Do kneel down to him and look up or look down?