I don't cook food Jim doesn't like. That would be purposely disrespectful to him. I don't watch programs he dislikes when he is at home. I DVR them and watch them when he is out and about. Out of respect. It seems to me you can be whomever you want to be whenever and however. But if you respect or care about others you don't do what they dislike when you are with them. It's not hard. It just takes AWARENESS and CARING. So smark aleck away if you must. Just be prepared for me to react unappreciatively. Because I will.