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Me too neither PC. I was a painfully shy child. I did not want to be noticed. Mostly I wanted to be invisible. I haven't changed much. I don't want to be the star in the spotlight on stage or screen or TV. I want to be the director! Not so much that I want to control what the star does/says


but that I want to give feedback as to how the "performance" is coming off and see if my suggestions might find a willing ear. I stay on the sidelines always close to the nearest exit. In the shadows preferably. Thank you for your thoughtful answer PC! :)
depends on what was on that list