I've always said that if everybody was forced to spend about six weeks in a courtroom, they'd come away with a strong dose of reality. I don't know what reality you dwell in, but the problem of abuse to women and children occurs across racial and cultural lines. You'll just have to take my word for it, cause I've seen it. About twenty years worth of experience. If you took a break from your hate campaigns long enough, you'd know what was happening in the world.
Just allegorical evidence ... I don't see how "gangsta rappers" can claim they don't hate women, based on the lyrics. And since the majority of those "artists" are black ... and the majority of their demographic is black ... I would say there is strong possibility black men hate women, just as much as white men do.