Sex appeal does not depend upon your outside. At least that has always been true for me and has been my experience. It is something else entirely. Something within that captures you. It's either there or isn't. Some say it's all about pheromes(sp?) or "chemistry".
Have you ever seen a movie where you just didn't believe the relationship? A gorgeous dame and a hunky guy and you thought both were total duds? No sparks? No electricity? No nuthin'?
I've met more than one handsome guy whose packaging was all he had going for him. And some who were really magnetic whom one might call "average" in looks but it was something in the eyes or the way he carried himself. Confident not arrogant.
I can't be the only person who has experienced that. Can I?