What defines a healthy relationship?!

Someone who you can be yourself with, someone you can fully trust, someone who makes you want to be with them a lot if not all the time, someone who makes you want to be a better version of you, someone with who you share mutual love, respect, honesty and understanding with, oh and someone who's heading in the same direction as you in life.  :-)

and balance

That my friend, is where I'm at a loss.  :-(  I don't think it takes a lot of work but it does entail being mindful of what's going on with you.  Being honest with yourself and finding a way to express your feelings properly to the other person.

• Vegetables and legumes/beans.
• Fruit.
• Grain (cereal) foods, mostly wholegrain and/or high cereal fibre varieties.
• Lean meats and poultry, fish, eggs, tofu, nuts and seeds and legumes/beans.
• Milk, yoghurt cheese and/or alternatives, mostly reduced fat.

The key word to describe the relationship is healthy. 

Anyone who shares a healthy lifestyle, shares a healthy relationship.

Healthy individuals produce a healthy relationship.

LD50

Guess that's a bit radical. ;-)

Hey, a healthy blond moment.