When you make your own bed you deserve to lie in it QUIETLY. Every choice comes with a price or consequence. If you are unwilling to be accountable then simply sit and fade away doing and saying nothing at all ever. Otherwise guys put on your big boy pants and live with it. Gals put on your big girl pants and live with it. Unless someone put a gun to your head and forced you to decide against your will YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR CHOICES so quitcher bit**in! :).