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Do you know In advance when you’re about to do some serious self sabotage or just realize it after the fact?

Posted - September 28, 2019

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  • Hmmmm.....  That's a thinker.  


    I suppose it's just my comfort zone, sadly enough.
      September 28, 2019 6:58 PM MDT
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  • I’m at the point now where I can feel it coming. I don’t like it. 
      September 28, 2019 7:01 PM MDT
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  • Ehhhhh....     Damn it
      September 28, 2019 7:08 PM MDT
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  • Well at least I can stop it now. But doesn’t stop me feeling like I’m screaming inside. I’m have a breakdown tonight lol. It will pass. 
      September 28, 2019 7:12 PM MDT
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  • 10026
    9 times out of 10, my self sabotage is premeditated.
    Sub-consciously or not, I know I'm about to do it.

    That's part of the entire self-sabotaging experience for me.  The anxiety before, during, and the climax of after.

    Please note, I have NEVER or will EVER do physical self sabotaging. i.e. cutting.
    Mental is tourcherous enough.
      September 29, 2019 12:21 AM MDT
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  • Same for me, all of that :)
      September 29, 2019 4:27 PM MDT
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  • Ha, I can pull off plenty of self-sabotage either way. And I honestly can't even tell you which is better. The impulsive variety brings a bit of excitement with the unknown but planning it out gives you the joy of picking your favorite poison. 
      September 30, 2019 6:59 AM MDT
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