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If someone has a problem with your friend does he/she also have a problem with you? Because?

Posted - October 29, 2019
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  • 6023
    I guess that would depend on what the problem is.

    EG: I have friends who imbibe alcohol.  I do not.  
    Some people have a problem with others who imbibe any amount of alcohol.
    Some of those would not have a problem with me, because I do not imbibe.
    Others would, because I don't oppose my friends who do.

    I do not have a problem with either group - as long as they are merely stating opinions, and not trying to force their beliefs on others.
      October 29, 2019 10:38 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    Thank you for your reply Walt. On Answerbag folks would bandwagon. One of their ilk didn't like someone the rest of the ilk climbed aboard and attacked. I never got that. The disliker would dislike out loud and the pals of the disliker would join in and gang up. I think being pulled around by the nose like that is quite disgusting. Do you? That is what I was referring to Walt. If your pal has it in for someone do you too although you may not have had any interactions with the despised one yourself? You just take someone's word for it and you're off and running? That's not me. But far too many people do that. Not admirable or fair or honorable. Thank you for your reply! :)
      October 30, 2019 3:00 AM MDT
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  • 46117

    I don't play baby games.

    How stupid.  I am not a guard for anyone. If my friend has done something wrong, then my friend needs to address that.  Not me.

    If you pick on someone in front of me, you'd better realize that I am there and I will answer you no matter if the person you are picking on is my friend or not.  

    That is how I roll.  No one needs to stand up for me and I don't need to stand up for anyone who should be standing on their own.  That is the type of friends I admire.  

      October 29, 2019 10:45 AM MDT
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  • 113301
    I fight my own battles too Sharon when I choose to fight. Mostly I just ignore it and move on. It is nice however to see a pal defend you from time to time but running to others to moan and groan and bit** around someone is so juvenile childish and weak. I don't get why folks do that. It is most unbecoming. You dislike someone. Fine. You don't have to enlist the backing of your pals to attack or defend. However that is how the stupid dumb pols are. Precisely. They are told whom to despise excoriate vilify and they are all provided with scripts they must follow to the letter or all he** will hit them and they do as they are told. Not one spine among the lot of them. They are despicable. To me. Thank you for your reply! :)
      October 30, 2019 3:05 AM MDT
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