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Anyone in your life who always calls when he/she wants something FROM you but never ever calls to do something FOR you?

Are you always available to service their needs or do you get sick and tired of it and say "no"?

Posted - January 31, 2020

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  • 10701
    Yes, I've been used. 

    It's always, "Could you help me do this", or, "Can I borrow that", or, "drop whatever you're doing and come listen to my problems".   Yet if I need anything (even if it's just a kind word), they magically disappear.  I'm a nice person and I want to help others, but I hate being used!!  Yet when I say no or turn a deaf ear to their requests, they make it my problem.  (Grrr!!!)
      January 31, 2020 9:33 AM MST
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  • 113301
    I would have bet on it Shuhak. Wouldn't it be nice if just ONCE someone reached out to do something nice FOR YOU without having it be a suckup way to ASK SOMETHING OF YOU? Thank you for your reply! :)
      January 31, 2020 11:24 AM MST
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  • 44704
    I had a brother like that. He died a few years ago.
      January 31, 2020 5:25 PM MST
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