A lot of women in the teaching profession these days are getting caught having sex with minors.
When I attended college (well beyond the age of 18), there was an administrator there to whom I was very much attracted. I found out through a female friend who had been attending the college for at least a year prior to my arrival that the woman in question had a strict, unwavering personal rule against any type of relationship with students and/or former students, a stance that was even more stringent than the school's written anti-fraternization policies.
How unfair! She had all the traits that turn me on; she was extremely intelligent, highly educated, well-spoken, confident, classy, sophisticated, ambitious, tall, slender, cute dimples in her cheeks, a killer smile, long black silky hair, wore glasses, wore very little makeup, dressed simply and conservatively, was beautiful and sexy. On top of that, she was also bilingual; imagine all the cool Spanish I could have learned from her. I was single, she was single, it would have been perfect!
Where the heck was she when I needed her? Why in the heck was she so moralistic and value-driven? I really wanted me some of that! (Yes, I know, I know, it's poor grammar. Send your complaints to the management office.)
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If this is meant to be funny, I want to tell you that it is not.
I know you are trying to romanticize a situation that can be perceived as "cute". It is not. My stomach is turning that you would even find this something to post that other people can relate to. Yes, men want sex. I get that. Yes it is fun to muse over how your nubile 15-year old, testosterone-infused body wanted the chance to nail a teacher in her early 30's.
Making a joke about how that is a positive bonding experience between you and the other men and women on this site that can RELATE to this desire, you know, that find this idea enticing? THAT scares me.
This is a tool, this site. It affects people. That is why I am on here. I want to try and shake people out of their reverie. I want them to listen to me clearly enough and closely enough to tell me why I am wrong when I am.
Now, I am going to tell you why this is not cute and you can tell me why I am wrong.
The whole reason that things like "harmless" bullying and lusting after minors is not considered JOKEWORTHY any longer is because we are coming OUT OF THE DARK AGES. We do not do a lot of things that were "hidden" in your day. The day of the person in any authority over a child acting out on some perverse lust, is breaking the law. And this law I totally stand behind.
To miss the opportunity? You are pining over this? Get some therapy. The very next thing that needs to be addressed is how much time women and men past 40 start to long for what low level lusts have not been satiated. I cannot imagine ever EVER thinking about some young guy and wishing I had nailed him. But I have a lot of girlfriends stuck in that boring mind-set. So, this is not only aimed at you. I know most people reading this will think I am a crazy dried up old loon. LOL
BUT? To want to have a situation where you get laid by your 30 year old teacher sounds GROOVY, Randy.
Just GROOVY. Why don't you read actual case histories where that HAS happened?
I spend a lot of time on crime channels. Yes. The burden of them deal with crime on children. At least half of those deal with teachers or humans in positions of authority having sex with minors.
I'm sure it is fun to be dreaming about being 15 and boffing a sexy 30 year old. Sure. But what about 14? 13? or a normal `15 year old even? And this "older woman" is allowing this to happen.
Do you think that you are hooking up with someone who is really all there? These people are predators. It may seem yummy to you, but it seems scummy to me.
I don't care. Don't start the thing off with this then.
A lot of women in the teaching profession these days are getting caught having sex with minors.
