Phinheasgage → How to Make & Keep a Good Marriage: Messianicgirl, I probably did misunderstand you, because it sounds like you're saying you should stay in a marriage to a person who hates you. Im sure that's not what you mean.
April 14, 2016
Phinheasgage → How to Make & Keep a Good Marriage: Silver, if you restrict this to before the problems start you'll hear your voice echoing off the empty walls. There will be no one here but newlyweds, and they won't last long either.
April 14, 2016
Phinheasgage → How to Make & Keep a Good Marriage: Almost everything I'm reading here assumes two people not only willing but 150% committed to making whatever changes are necessary to the relationship and to themselves. It doesn't usually work out that way. More likely one person gets things the way they... moreAlmost everything I'm reading here assumes two people not only willing but 150% committed to making whatever changes are necessary to the relationship and to themselves. It doesn't usually work out that way. More likely one person gets things the way they want them and won't budge. You better do all this warm fuzzy stuff at the beginning, because it's not going to help once a marriage gets to the point of affairs, lawyers, or despair. A relationship is like an organism. It can die. And most marriages do. That's just a statistical fact. Almost half end in divorce, and many who don't divorce but are unhappy stay. So that's half plus many more...a majority. Most marriages end up unhappy. If you're having marriage problems you are a frog in a kettle. And if your spouse is unable or unwilling to work with you to correct the problems, all the communication exercises, choreplay, retreats, counseling, and workbooks in the world are not going to fix it.
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carazaa: Phinheasgage I can't post a general question, it freezes up?
March 31, 2016
carazaa: You joined this Christian group? That's great! No I haven't heard that one.
March 31, 2016
carazaa: I wrote to you in the comment wall at the bottom of your profile and it shows up after 30 seconds at the top of your profile activities.
March 31, 2016
carazaa: Hi friend-
I love your profile picture! This site is tricky to figure out huh? I like it so far, do you? Thank you for the friend request...
March 31, 2016
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